8 Responses to “Why You Really Shouldn’t Care About My Top Sex Bloggers List”

  1. Hyacinth says:

    I love that you wrote this, Rori. I like to use this list exactly as you hope someone will: to broaden my horizons and to find new writers. It’s what I told my readers to use it for when I pointed them this way. But I won’t lie, I’d like to be listed because I respect most, if not all, the writers on past lists and it’d be groovy to be among them again. But you’re right, I don’t *need* it.
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  2. Thank you for reminding us all that in the end it’s all just your opinion. I value your opinion, as do many others (obviously) and while I also think it would be an honor to be included among such a talented group in the end I’m just going to use the list to expand my blogroll. So thank you in advance with directing me toward more wonderful writing! You’re wonderful for that!

    Stay SINful
    Mr. AP
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  3. CC says:

    I like that you said this. I’ve heard so many good things about this list so the reason why I mentioned it to my readers is because I know it’s important to have a list of this nature. Regardless of whether someone I like makes the list or not, I think it’s a good thing. A list of people who talk about sex in an interesting, exciting, and healthy manner? That’s a good thing. :)

  4. JillianBoyd says:

    Thank you for reminding me. I needed this.

    xoxo
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  5. Karen Blue says:

    Thanks for writing this. You are right about a lot of things that you said. I immediately thought when I saw the post about the awards “Oh I won’t get it this year. I blog too much about this and not enough about that.”
    Stupid really because my blog was never meant to be about getting on a list (although my ego would love it) it won’t make or brake my blog. I will still re-post it as a great resource for my readers. Hopefully i will find some new blogs I love on the list. That is what it is there for after all, discovering a great sex blog!
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  6. nilla says:

    nodding…yes, exactly.

    I started blogging nearly 3 years ago (anniversary at month’s end for me!)…and the first year I found your list…i was sad to not be on it…but I was new, and hadn’t been around long and and and…

    it was an eye opening experience. I found several blogs that i still follow from the list.

    And from the start, my blog was about satisfying me. Making my little fantasies have a place. I’m always surprised and happy when someone takes a moment to comment and give me a head pat…who wouldn’t be? I work very hard to reply to each and every comment, because people took the time to do the same for me.

    And when I was on the list last year? It thrilled me. It didn’t become the be all and end all of my blogging life, but it sure made me smile. And proud. My Master was proud of me, and I was proud of me…and then I kept on right on blogging.

    Blogging feeds me. It pleases me to spin a tale that someone else enjoys. It releases the beast inside me, and shares my experiences as I grow and learn more about myself and my journey into D/s.

    Do I hope I wind up on your list this year? To say no would be disingenuous, yes? I would be thrilled. But even if I wasn’t there? I’d get up the next morning, and write.

    Thanks Rori, for this post. For reminding us all that our voices are unique points of view, and we all have something to share with the world.

    nilla
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  7. viemoira says:

    I have found most of the sites I read through your list and those sites have helped me immensely in finding out more information re: BDSM relationships. Thanks for all you do Rori!
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  8. Joan Price says:

    Being on your list has helped many people find my blog who would have been unaware of it otherwise. It has also introduced me to other blogs that I enjoy reading, and other bloggers I’m happy to have in my virtual world. So I do care!

    When will the 2012 list be published?
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