I know this is a sex blog, but I have to admit, one of the best things about my relationship with V is the time we spend not having sex. When we do play, it is wonderful. At least, I think it is. But I’ve learned quickly that he’s not the kind of man who needs it every single night. Many times when we could have had sex, we’ve cuddled and fell asleep instead.
I’m a nympho. That’s never, ever going to change. Maybe it is because I was so old when I had sex for the first time (I was 18). I don’t know. In any case, I’m the kind of girl who wouldn’t mind being woken up in the middle of the night to fuck…every night. I wouldn’t mind getting that head push every morning. I wouldn’t mind a really active, fun, crazy, full sex life. In fact, I’ve had that and I loved it.
However, that kind of relationship comes with a price. When you’re having tons of sex, that’s all you really have time to do as a couple. Sure, you may cuddle a little afterward to go to dinner together, but does the relationship ever get past the puppy love stage? Probably not. Not unless you have oodles of free time to spend together. And we don’t.
Every moment I get to spend with him, I feel blessed. At first, it bothered me that we weren’t having more sex. Now, I really like that we aren’t. Don’t get me wrong, I love sex with the man and am up for it any time. It’s really nice, though, to have a guy interested in me outside of the bedroom though.
Yesterday, I got to meet his grandmother…and I feel like that was really special. I mean, maybe he introduced every girl he dates to his family, but I don’t. I loved her to pieces – she reminded me so much of my own grandmother, who passed away when I was in high school.
Life is ok, too, people. Sex is great. Domination is fantastic. But don’t forget to make time for just life.
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Good for you! Like you sex every night would be awesome, but to find a connection that makes you feel good at the end of the day is equally important!
I think that having a life together outside of sex also makes the sex better in the long run. This was a really lovely post to read, I’m glad that you’re so happy
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I was 18 my first time, too. NOT old.
Lovely post. Be happy being nympho but don’t put it at the door of starting “late” – 18 is absolutely normal for entering into a full sex life.
Rori,
I’ve just discovered your site and I think your writing is very stimulating and thought provoking. As per this post … too much of anything becomes boring.
Marc