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Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2014


This is my favorite time of year. My Christmas tree is twinkling in the background, my tummy is full of cookies, and my heart is toasty warm thinking about upcoming trips to see friends and family. It’s also my favorite time of year because I get to announce my new Top Sex Bloggers list. I love discovering all of the new blogs you’ve nominated and rediscovering old blogs I haven’t visited in way too long. And most of all, I love sharing what I find with all of you.

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Also check out my sidebar for a list of past #1 winners, who have been retired for this list. I love all of the past #1 winners – they still have awesome blogs!

This year, I decided to do my list a little differently. Every year, I have a clear top twenty or so in mind, but once I get beyond that, thinks are a little fuzzy. What makes one blog a #37 and another a #38? What even makes one blog a #40 and another a #70? So, for 2014, I’ve listed my top 10, and then I have the rest of my list in alphabetical order, rather than in some kind of “who is better than whom” order. For the top 10, I’ve also included a blurb about why I like them so much and “recommend reading” – a post from the last year that I think is especially awesome.

I need your feedback: Do you like the list better in this order? Or do you prefer a complete numbered list? Please comment so I can make a decision for next year!

Before getting to the full list, I have one extra award to give out this year! This award celebrates a blog that is new since last year, and hasn’t quite been around long enough for the full TSB list below.

This year’s New Voice of the Year award goes to Erica Jagger from A Sexy Women of a Certain Age. I was introduced to Erica’s blog during my Post of the Year competition, and I fell completely in love. I can’t wait to see what she writes in 2015 and beyond.

>>Click here to tweet a congratulations message to Erica!

And now, without further ado, your Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2014:

1. Girl on the Net

Before I even started judging blogs this year, I knew Girl on the Net was going to be a contender for the #1 spot. Her blog is smart and sassy and sexy, and I also love how supportive she is of other bloggers in this little fucked up community we’ve got. This is one of the few blogs I make time to read every week, and I’m excited to continue reading Girl on the Net in 2015.

2. JoEllen Notte, The Redhead Bedhead

I was trying to think up the perfect words to talk about why I love The Redhead Bedhead, and what I came up with is this: JoEllen is simply an amazing writer. On top of that, she isn’t afraid to speak (write?) her mind, even when her opinion is contrary to what others are writing and even when the topics she’s discussing are tough. Even her reviews are amazing, and frankly, I skip over reviews on most sex blog since I already try out so many toys myself.

3. Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan, Oh Joy Sex Toy

Last year, Oh Joy Sex Toy was one of my “New Voices of the Year,” and the blogging team of Erika and Matthew went on to do GREAT things in 2014, included much-deserved attention from people like Amanda Palmer and Dan Savage. They’re best known for fun web comic style sex toy reviews, but they also tackle some super important issues like pregnancy and consent.

4. Nikki & Heather, Vagina Antics

Seriously, what’s not to love about Nikki and Heather. They’re super sexy writers, but the smut they publish is just the tip of the iceberg. They also cover super important topics like slut-shaming, the problems with porn, and obligation to a partner (post linked below). I equally love their erotica and their opinion pieces, and I think only the most talented writers can cover such a variety of topics really well.

5. BD Swain, learning how to tell you

This blog is hot. It’s my smutty, guilty pleasure. It doesn’t matter what your gender identity or sexual preferences – if you love good erotica, you will love BD Swain’s blog as much as I do.

6. Jillian Boyd, Lady Laid Bare

Jillian cracks me up. I mean, her posts are sexy as hell, don’t get me wrong. But she’s also super funny. If I had to sum up her writing style in one word it would be this: honest. Her posts don’t try too hard, which is a struggle for a lot of bloggers out there, especially those of us who write erotica. Nothing is forced, it’s just real.

7. Cheeky Minx, Love Hate Sex Cake

If you’re looking for hot erotica and photography, this is the blog for you. When I’m in the mood for some sexy self-love, I usually find myself binge-reading posts on Love Hate Sex Cake. And seriously, follow Cheeky Minx on Twitter too, because she’s just as hot in 140 characters as she is on her blog.

8. Lilly, Dangerous Lilly

I’ve been following Dangerous Lilly from the very beginning, and I love the transformation she’s gone through. While she started as a more general sex blogger, today she is a champion for safe sex toys. I admire her for not being afraid to call out companies who are selling unsafe toys, and for doing the hard work it takes to test toys so she can educate us about which toys we should be buying. Plus, she’s extremely supportive of the sex blogging community, which I love

9. Dr. NerdLove, Paging Dr. NerdLove

While I absolutely love erotica and reviews, I also love really great advice sites. Paging Dr. NerdLove is one of my favorites because he covers such a wide variety of topics and all of the advice he gives is fantastic. One common pitfall I find with more advice sites is that they get a little boring, but that definitely isn’t the case with Dr. NerdLove!

10. Hyacinth Jones, A Dissolute Life Means

I totally have a girly crush on Hyacinth Jones. I want to high-five her when she writes about amazing sex. I want to hug her when she struggles with a relationship. I feel like I know her through her posts, and I love when a sex blog draws me in like that.

And the rest, beyond the top ten, in alphabetical order:



As always, my list actually only has 99 bloggers on it, because the final spot belongs to you! Comment with a link to your own blog so we can all check it out. :)

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A few housekeeping notes:

  • Why didn’t you or your favorite sex blogger make the list? Read this post.
  • Your number is relative to the other bloggers on this list, not relative to your position last the top ten last year and aren’t this year, that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a worse blogger than you were last year. Besides, you really shouldn’t care too much about this list. After all, it’s just one person’s humble opinion.
  • If you find a broken link, let me know! With a list this big, there are bound to be a few errors.
  • If you’re on the list and want to be called a different name, email me at

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Well, everyone, I guess the 2014 list is a wrap! Can’t wait to see what you all do in 2015 and beyond!

About Rori

Rori is the founder of Between My Sheets. She works full time as a writer, reviewer, and online educator and can be reached at


  1. Jillian Boyd December 22, 2014 at 4:13 am -  Reply

    What a brilliant thing to wake up to. Thank you, Rori. x
    Jillian Boyd recently posted..Adventures With Love BallsMy Profile

  2. Cheeky Minx December 22, 2014 at 5:55 am -  Reply

    I’m so honoured to be among such incredible talent, both in the top ten and the entire list . Thank you for the early Christmas present, Rori!

    ~M x
    Cheeky Minx recently posted..InstructionMy Profile

  3. Hyacinth December 22, 2014 at 6:38 am -  Reply

    Oh wow, what a wonderful thing to wake up to! Thank you, Rori, for all the work that must’ve gone into this; I’m honored to be listed with such talented writers.
    And the girly crush is totally mutual! xx Hy
    Hyacinth recently posted..He brought me bacon.My Profile

  4. Bobbie Morgan December 22, 2014 at 7:28 am -  Reply

    Wow! Thanks for including me on this list! It’s always such an honor to be recognized by you along with so many other interesting, informative and talented bloggers. So many new blogs to check out this year! xxxo
    Bobbie Morgan recently posted..The Odd History of the Magic Wand OriginalMy Profile

  5. Nikki Blue December 22, 2014 at 9:30 am -  Reply

    What beautiful news to wake up to! Thank you so much for including us among so many incredible bloggers! Such an honor! I’ll be squeeing and using cheerleader exclamation points for DAYS!
    Nikki Blue recently posted..Conversations From the WorkplaceMy Profile

  6. Girl on the Net December 22, 2014 at 10:54 am -  Reply

    Thank you SO SO SO much, Rori. I’m overwhelmed that you’ve put me at number one – I look to your list every year to see who I should be following, and check out awesome blogs, and it’s deeply flattering that you’ve included me. I know I’m going to sound incredibly rambling here, but honestly this is the best Christmas present ever =) Thank you so much. I will display the badge on my site proudly – in the middle of redesigning it, so I’m making a special space for this badge, and the op-ed one. Thank you again, so much. And looking forward to getting to know some of the other bloggers in the top 100 in 2015! xxx
    Girl on the Net recently posted..The topless snowball fightMy Profile

    • Rori December 22, 2014 at 12:34 pm -  Reply

      You deserve it! :) Merry Christmas!

  7. hispetitelle December 22, 2014 at 11:18 am -  Reply

    Thank you so very much for including me. To say I am humbled is an understatement. I really am speechless because it was so unexpected. This is an amazing list of talented bloggers so to be included among them is truly an honor. I’m smilng ear to ear right now. Again, thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.
    hispetitelle recently posted..Ch-Ch-Ch-Ch-ChangesMy Profile

  8. Cammies on the Floor December 22, 2014 at 12:04 pm -  Reply

    I like a top ten. I believe it would be overwhelming, and fuzzy, to list those beyond ten or so. Thank you for putting out a list again, it’s how I found my favorites in years’ past.
    Cammies on the Floor recently posted..Gravity BootMy Profile

  9. Kyle Jones December 22, 2014 at 12:14 pm -  Reply

    I am very honored to be a part of this list again. Thank you so much, Rory. Another great sex blog that people should check out is My Whole Sex Life by Evoe Thorne,
    Kyle Jones recently posted..Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2014My Profile

  10. Tamsin Flowers December 22, 2014 at 1:15 pm -  Reply

    Goodness – this came as a complete surprise to me and I feel incredibly honored to have been included. Thank you so much – many of the other bloggers on your list are writers I already admire, and there are lots of new names to check out as well. Again, thank you – I’m sitting here with a huge grin plastered on my face! :)

  11. Marian Green December 22, 2014 at 2:42 pm -  Reply

    Dear Rory, thank you so much for the effort you put into this every year. It’s so exciting to see my name and blog on the list again along with so many blogging brothers and sisters I love and respect. I feel like this is a huge virtual Christmas part for all of us. One where we can congratulate each other and meet new folks. Great big hugs!!! And again, thank you.

  12. Evie the Rabbit December 22, 2014 at 2:57 pm -  Reply

    Thank you so very much for including me on this list of super lovely and sexy folks!! What an unexpected and pleasurable surprise!!
    Evie the Rabbit recently posted..Skin HungerMy Profile

  13. Julie December 22, 2014 at 3:13 pm -  Reply

    Congratulation to everyone, but the biggest acknoledgement goes to Rori, what an epic work it could have been to create this amazing list!

  14. Julie December 22, 2014 at 3:20 pm -  Reply

    A great list, and for me, lots of new blogs to read. Thanks for all of your hard work Rory :)
    Julie recently posted..Life takes overMy Profile

  15. Slutty Girl Problems December 22, 2014 at 3:55 pm -  Reply

    Thank you so much for including SGP! It’s so flattering to be mentioned among such amazing, talented, passionate fellow sex bloggers! Also lovely to learn about so many new blogs… and especially your Top 10! THANKS! <3

  16. Accidental Masturbator December 22, 2014 at 5:01 pm -  Reply

    Shizzle! I’m on the list? I don’t care whether I’m 37, 38, 40 or 70 (if Hy is 10 I’m guessing I’m somewhere in the 90s.) It’s an honour to be ranked amidst such company.

  17. Jane December 22, 2014 at 5:28 pm -  Reply

    Thank you, thank you, Rori. I am so chuffed to have been included, not least because of the amazing company I find myself in. (Massive surprise but a very wonderful one!) And huge congratulations to those who made the top 10. Jane xxx
    Jane recently posted..Tamsin talks AlchemyMy Profile

  18. Gritty Woman December 22, 2014 at 6:03 pm -  Reply

    What a fantastic list. I am honoured to be included. Thank you Rori and congratulations to everyone on the list. Happy Christmas! x
    Gritty Woman recently posted..Jimmyjane Form 2 Vibrator ReviewMy Profile

  19. BD Swain December 22, 2014 at 7:35 pm -  Reply

    I’m just thrilled. And a bit overwhelmed. What an amazing collection of blogs overall here. And I absolutely love the story of mine that you chose as a sample! That one is also one of my personal favorites.


  20. Dangerous Lilly December 22, 2014 at 8:24 pm -  Reply

    I am genuinely shocked and thoroughly awed and all sorts of things. Thank you so much! I’ve worked my ass off this year, I’m glad it’s showing! :)

  21. Jz December 22, 2014 at 8:38 pm -  Reply

    I always love going through these lists and meeting new people.
    Thank you, Rori. :-)
    Jz recently posted..Holiday HecklingMy Profile

  22. Marie Rebelle December 23, 2014 at 5:27 am -  Reply

    Thank you so much, Rori, for including my blog again and the wonderful work you do every year to get this list out there. At first I was taken a bit off guard when I saw that you haven’t done a numbered list again, but now I think this is a perfect format for it. A top ten and then an alphabetical list after that. Perfect!
    Thanks again, Rori!

    Rebel xox
    Marie Rebelle recently posted..The instructor (20)My Profile

  23. MySirsMynx December 23, 2014 at 6:52 am -  Reply

    The talent here is unbelievable, and to be included among them such an honor! Thank you Rori, you just made my day!


  24. Mr. Will December 23, 2014 at 9:18 am -  Reply

    Yay! Thank you, Rori! :-) Congrats, everyone!!!!
    Mr. Will recently posted..10 Awesome AphrodisiacsMy Profile

  25. diirrty December 23, 2014 at 6:20 pm -  Reply

    whoa, considering my lack of writing this year, i’m stoked to make the list. cheers, and merry christmas!
    diirrty recently posted..masturbate, to diirrtyMy Profile

  26. Jade December 24, 2014 at 8:28 am -  Reply

    Another wonderful list, Rory, and some great new reads for me to check out! Thank you for including my blog again as well. I am honored, as always, to be included. :-)

    Regarding doing a “Top Ten” as opposed to listing them numerically, I LOVE it. I never could understand how you managed to rank everyone numerically in the first place – it must have given you a headache! So hooray for the new system! I also REALLY like that you give a brief “this is why I chose them” for your top 10. I am always more inclined to click over to a new blog when I can read what it is about that blog that drew someone else. So again, thank you for another year of intriguing, sexy, reading! :-)
    Jade recently posted..Feeling Lonely in a Crowded LifeMy Profile

  27. Stranded December 25, 2014 at 8:45 am -  Reply

    Thank you, so much, for including me. I’m so honored to be listed among such talent.

    Stranded recently posted..King of Old DublinMy Profile

  28. Ferns December 27, 2014 at 2:48 am -  Reply

    I’m thrilled to be included, thank you so much *smile*. And thanks for all the hard work, Rori.

    I think having a top 10, and then the others un-numbered is a great idea! I’d suggest a random list though (vs an alphabetical one) simply because it gives the later alpha-numericals a chance to be at the top of the list (not for ranking, obviously but just for accessibility since I suspect most people would start checking out blogs from the top because we like to be methodical like that).

    Ferns recently posted..Baby: AudioMy Profile

  29. Bree Guildford January 2, 2015 at 7:33 pm -  Reply

    Thank you so much for including me in your list! I’m blown away to be honest! Have a happy 2015!

  30. BC January 3, 2015 at 11:19 am -  Reply
    Wow just stumbled on to this. Man the writing here is really great. I’ve just learned I have to get a lot more creative. Congrats to all the writers and contributors.

  31. Cande January 13, 2015 at 8:41 am -  Reply

    Wow! Thanks for the mention. This is a real honour. I’ll post a link back here right away on my blog. It’s also a great reference for finding new reading material!

    Much appreciated. xox

  32. Rose January 20, 2015 at 1:56 pm -  Reply

    Hey all! I’m a sex+ blogger and sex toy reviewer at (About to do a 50 Shades of Grey giveaway, so keep checking back!) We have six more days of my contest to win a chance to be a guest reviewer on mah blog, so go sign up (this is a great chance for those of you without blogs, who want to have a chance to work your magic : )

  33. N. Likes January 21, 2015 at 2:14 pm -  Reply

    Well I’m flattered – and late to the party!

    Thanks so much! (And what great company I’m in!)

  34. David Wells September 19, 2015 at 9:12 am -  Reply

    Great list, I find so many good blog from your list. Looking forward to see your top bloggers for 2015.

  35. David Wells September 19, 2015 at 9:14 am -  Reply

    Awesome list, I find so many good blog from your list. Looking forward to see your top bloggers for 2015.
    David Wells recently posted..Fleshjack Coupon Codes 2015 – Save 25%My Profile

  36. Angela Goodnight October 12, 2015 at 11:03 am -  Reply

    I’m a new girl on the block, well in blogging terms. Actually 65, but writing about a very long and horny life. Just letting you know for future reference.

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