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Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2013


2013 is on its way out the door, but before we say goodbye, it’s time for my annual top sex bloggers list! This year’s list of the best sex bloggers out there was truly a labor of love. We had more nominations than ever before!

Before we get to this year’s list, check out these top sex bloggers who have been retired because they previously claimed the #1 spot:

We also have a few other awards to give out!

New Voice of the Year: I legit could not decide between Erika from Oh Joy Sex Toy, who has a completely unique and creative way of writing posts using comics, and GrittyWoman, who I seriously can’t believe has been around for less than a year.

Sex Comic of the Year: – great for a naughty laugh

Sex-Positive Community of the Year: The Outdoor Co-ed Topless Pulp Fiction Appreciation Society – love the spirit of this group!

Best Group Blog: Life on the Swingset – okay, there are other blogs on the list below with more than one author, but this is a huge number of people coming together to write blogs, produce podcasts, review toys, and more. It’s really more like a network than a single blog…and it’s awesome!

And now, without further ado, your 2013 Top Sex Bloggers list:

1. Lady Pandorah from Lady Pandorah’s Sanctuary @ladypandorah
2. Jerome from Let’s Talk About Sex @NotJeromeStuart
3. EA from Easily Aroused @EasilyAroused
4. Anna Sansom from The Lady Garden Project @ladygarden69
5. Violet Blue from Tiny Nibbles @violetblue
6. Dick and Jane from Dick-n-Jane
7. Kara from Kara Sutra Reviews @Kara_Sutra
8. Lauralyn from Big Ugly Pix
9. Remittance Girl from Remittance Girl @remittancegirl
10. Dorothy Black from The Dot Spot @dorothyblack
11. Monocle, Redbud, and Ximena from The Erotic Writer @_Monocle_ and @_Ximena_Writes_
12. Penny from Penny for Your (Dirty) Thoughts @pennysblog
13. Lauren from Queerie Bradshaw @QueerieBradshaw
14. MsQuote from A Good Woman’s Dirty Mind @GoodDirtyWoman
15. littlesubmissions from Little Submissions
16. Blacksilk from Being Blacksilk @BeingBlacksilk
17. Conina from Exploring Surrender
18. SGC from Submissive Guy Comics @SGCposts
19. Shelby Cross from Shelby Cross, Writer @Shelby_Cross
20. N. Likes from My Dissolute Life @nlikes
21. Jayne from Diary Incarnate
22. John from John D. Stories @johndstories
23. Z from Pervertically Virtuous @VirtuousPervert
24. LS&M from Love, Sex & Marriage
25. Bre from Owned, Collared, Loved @Pandasproperty
26. Hyacinth Jones from A Dissolute Life Means… @adissolutelife
27. Santha Smith from Secretly Sensuous @SSensuous
28. Ruby Ryder from Pegging Paradise @Ruby_Ryder
29. Charlie Glickman from Charlie Glickman @charlieglickman
30. Cliff from The Pervocracy @pervocracy
31. Marie Rebelle from Rebel’s Notes @rebelsnotes
32. Renee Rose from Renee Rose Romance @ReneeRoseAuthor
33. Lady Cheeky from Smut for Smarties @LadyCheeky
34. The Sin Doll from The Sin Doll @TheSinDoll
35. Cheeky Minx from Love Hate Sex Cake @LoveHateSexCake
36. Seamus from The Wistful Sinner
37. Athol Kay from Married Man Sex Life
38. Dangerous Lilly from This Could Be Dangerous @dangerouslilly
39. Lucas Brooks from Top To Bottom @Top2Bottom
40. Epiphora from Hey Epiphora @epiphora
41. Peroxide from Submissive in Seattle @Peroxide__
42. Axe from Unspeakable Axe @unspeakableaxe
43. Ferns from Domme Chronicles @Ferns__
44. Girl on the Net from Girl on the Net @girlonthenet
45. Joan Price from Naked at Our Age @joanprice
46. Cammies from Cammies on the Floor @cammiesonfloor
47. Venice and Ryan from Fuck Blogging @fuckblogging
48. Kaya from Under His Hand
49. Desi Dassi from Desi Dassi
50. Jz from A Reluctant Bitch
51. Cara from Cara Sutra @thecarasutra
52. Caitlin M. from Sexational! @sex_ational
53. Maggie Mayhem from Miss Maggie Mahem @msmaggiemayhem
54. Marian from Creative Noodling
55. BD Swain from Leaning How To Tell You @redswain
56. Thumper from Denying Thumber @thumperMN
57. Panty Parade from Off Go The Panties
58. Jade Melisande from Kink and Poly @piecesofjade
59. Will from Lusty Limerickets
60. Mollena from The Perverted Negress @Mollena
61. Pyx from Syncopation
62. Sadie Quinn from Sadie Quinn @ladybugsadey
63. Chris McC from Stranded in Toronto @stranded_in_to
64. Kayla Lords from A Sexual Being @KaylaLords
65. vulgarvag from Vuldar Vag @vulgarvag
66. Maggie from The Honest Courtesan @Maggie_McNeill
67. Shon Richards from Erotiterrorist @shonrichards
68. nilla from Vanillamom’s Blog @swirlednilla
69. Wordwytch from Adventures of a Word Wytch
70. Anastassia from Diary of an Owned Slave @NatiraDarius
71. Dumb Domme from Dumb Domme @DumbDomme
72. Jill McDevitt from A Day in the Life of a Sexologist @sexologistjill
73. Fatal from You Linger Like a Haunting Refrain
74. lifeofalovergirl from Life of a Lover Girl @lovergirlslife
75. Michael from Malflic @malflic
76. Mrs. Fever from Temperature’s Rising
77. Tori from Pain’s Pleasure
78. rougedmount from rougedmount
79. Heather and Nikki from Vagina Antics @Heather_Cole1 and @Nikki_Blue1
80. Perverse Cowgirl from Hiding in Plain Sight
81. Property of Potter from Property of Potter @pottersproperty
82. Anakin and padme from Journey to the Darkside @AnakinDarth and @padmeamidala
83. John Brownstone from Southern Sir’s Place
84. Joe Johnstun from Sexy Little Ideas @joejohnstun
85. Hedone from The Pleasure Principle @pleasure_spot
86. Sangsara from Sexuality Sanctuary @sangsaraB
87. Shadow from Shadowed Seductress @ShadowedS
88. Gemma from Erotic Adventures @swinginggemma
89. TJ from TJ’s Take @tjthemadhatter
90. Scarlett Dubois from A True Unfolding @ATrueUnfolding
91. Adriana Ravenlust from of Sex and Love
92. Ali from Ali’s Addiction @AlisAddiction
93. Jill from Naked All the Time @nakedjill
94. Emma from Dirty Little Whispers
95. paltego from Femdom Resource
96. Catherine Toyooka from Sex Spoken Here @Catcoaches
97. bilikesscifi from A Tale of Bi and Bi @bi_and_bi
98. Sarah from Marvelous Darling @marvydarling
99. mysticlez from Mystic’s Mind Fuck @mysticlez218

100. YOU! As always, I want to leave a place on this list for ALL the awesome sex bloggers out there! So please leave a comment on Between My Sheets with your name/URL to tell us about your sexy blog!

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You can also feel free to repost the list on your own blog (in entirety or just a part, like the top ten). All I ask is that you mention that I compiled this list and link back to this blog post. Also feel free to pick your favorites from this list to link to in your own mini-list…or even create your own full list! The whole point is to support the sex blogger community as much as possible by encouraging your readers to visit new and awesome blogs.

I also want to say a sad goodbye to a few sex bloggers who aren’t around anymore. We will miss you, and I hope that you’ll still be around the internets, even if you aren’t blogging anymore.

  • Aisha from Being Aisha
  • HH and Lo from My Sex Life with Lola
  • Mia Lee from Little Girl Lost

Happy trails, everyone! (Know someone to add this list? Let me know! Didn’t mean to miss anyone!)

Last, a few more housekeeping notes:

  • Why didn’t you or your favorite sex blogger make the list? Read this post.
  • Your number is relative to the other bloggers on this list, not relative to your position last year. So, if you were #10 last year an are #40 this year, that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a worse blogger than you were last year. Besides, you really shouldn’t care too much about this list. After all, it’s just one person’s humble opinion.
  • If you find a broken link, let me know! With a list this big, there are bound to be a few errors.
  • If you’re on the list and want to be called a different name or want me to add your Twitter handle, let me know!

If you liked this list and the rest of the content on Between My Sheets, why not sign up for my mailing list so you’ll get weekly updates right to your inbox? I also announce when the nominations open every year to email subscribers, so if you missed it this year, sign up and you’ll get an email next time around!

About Rori

Rori is the founder of Between My Sheets. She works full time as a writer, reviewer, and online educator and can be reached at


  1. Ferns December 7, 2013 at 3:03 am -  Reply

    Thanks for all the hard work, Rori! It’s unseemly how thrilled I am to make the list along with such amazing company! *squee!!*

    I love seeing new entries for blogs that I know and love, and I look forward to checking out the ones I’ve never heard of.


  2. Cara Sutra December 7, 2013 at 4:42 am -  Reply

    Ooh I made the list! Thanks so much. Great to see the wonderful Gritty Woman as one of the New Voices of the Year.

    Plus, of course, huge congratulations to everyone else on the list – and a hurray for everyone who took part in sex blogging this year, on the list or otherwise!

    Cara xxx
    Cara Sutra recently posted..Blissemas 2013 Erotica: Of the Santa persuasion…My Profile

  3. Kara_Sutra December 7, 2013 at 5:03 am -  Reply

    Um, WOW. I really didn’t expect to make the list, let alone be in the top 10 with such amazing peeps. Thank you for including me, I’m truthfully very flattered. <3

  4. Hedone December 7, 2013 at 6:12 am -  Reply

    Thank you for your efforts. I have read this list since I started blogging and many of my friends and favorite bloggers have been on the list. I am honored to have been read, nominated, and selected. As always, it is great to discover new blogs, too.


  5. H.H. December 7, 2013 at 7:04 am -  Reply

    Just wanted everyone to know – since we’ve been getting a lot of concerned e-mail – that Lola and I are still around. The reason the blog is down is due to the censorship of WordPress. Without getting into too many technical details, basically they shut us down a second time even after we had “moved” to a different host. So, for all you sexbloggers out there who use WordPress, I strongly suggest looking for an alternative, and soon!!! Thank you for all the hard work and for the mention. So sad that we weren’t able to be in the top 100 due to the censorship of a very unfair company.

    • Rori December 7, 2013 at 10:28 am -  Reply

      I was hoping you guys were still around out there and would be back someday!!

    • Josephine_kk December 7, 2013 at 12:05 pm -  Reply

      My blog is on wp with 123 reg and not had an issue. Congrats to all those who made the list and also, those who didn’t x

  6. Remittance Girl December 7, 2013 at 7:26 am -  Reply

    Thank you so much for including me in your top 10. I feel deeply undeserving of this, because my blog isn’t really a sex blog. I’m not nearly brave enough to blog about my actual life. For the most part, I just write fiction. But thank you so much. I’m honoured to be in such great company.
    Remittance Girl recently posted..Pork Satay With Peanut Dipping SauceMy Profile

  7. nilla December 7, 2013 at 9:01 am -  Reply

    Rori, so good to see you “back” (and not on that “retired bloggers” list)! Once again, thank you for the mammoth job of crafting this list, and for including my little blog on it. You are an awesomely sex-positive voice in the blogosphere, and we’re so lucky to have you here, top list or no top list.

    Wishing you and yours a bright and beautiful holiday season, and a wealth of blessings in the new year.

    nilla recently posted..The Slut Has a Death WishMy Profile

  8. Bre December 7, 2013 at 9:37 am -  Reply

    Thank you so much for putting together this list, Rori! I’m beyond humbled to see that I came in at #25 this year…Thanks to everyone who nominated me, too–you guys are amazing!

    If you don’t mind, though, I see that the link goes to my old blogspot blog, instead of my new self-hosted blog–could you maybe change the link to Thanks so much!

    I can’t wait go through the list and check out new blogs!

    Bre recently posted..Giving ThanksMy Profile

    • Rori December 7, 2013 at 11:52 am -  Reply


  9. Jerome Stuart Nichols December 7, 2013 at 9:50 am -  Reply

    So, excited. Being in the top 10 was one of my goals for the year, but I’m floored to be at #2. So, honored.

  10. Panty Parade December 7, 2013 at 10:31 am -  Reply

    Thank you for the honor, Rori! I cannot wait to visit each of these sites and join their communities. This is an invaluable list.

    Also, my twitter handle is @offgothepanties
    Panty Parade recently posted..A Shout Out to Our Sex Blogger CommunityMy Profile

  11. Catherine Toyooka December 7, 2013 at 10:53 am -  Reply


    My sincerest thanks for giving us sex bloggers this opportunity! It truly is an amazing thing you do.

    I’m thrilled to be included in the list!

    You, quite literally, rock :)

  12. Lord Raven December 7, 2013 at 11:33 am -  Reply

    IT is and honor to make your list. Thank you for all the work you have done. I hope you have a fantastic year and the next year will be amazing
    Lord Raven recently posted..Just a dream?My Profile

  13. LeNair Xavier December 7, 2013 at 11:34 am -  Reply

    Even though I do address sexuality a lot on my blog, and other topics as well. So I’m not sure if I qualify as a sex blogger. I’m just throwing my name into the hat because many have referred to me as a sex blogger. So I’ll let you decide.

    But I will say that I have written a post for your #2 choice, Jerome of “Let’s Talk About Sex”.
    LeNair Xavier recently posted..‘Make Me Pay’ Before I ‘Wet Your Flesh’My Profile

  14. padme amidala December 7, 2013 at 12:52 pm -  Reply

    Very excited to make your list again! We really appreciate our readers! We’ve been blogging for many years and enjoy it a lot. :) Thank you for making up this list each year, Rori!

    And congrats to all who made the list this year!

    Big hugs,
    padme amidala from Journey to the Darkside
    padme amidala recently posted..Top Sex Bloggers 2013!My Profile

  15. Lauralyn Brickhouse December 7, 2013 at 1:13 pm -  Reply

    Man oh MAN! What an enormous surprise to have discovered that my humble blog and I have found a spot in the top 10 of your list of top sex bloggers from 2013, Rori!!! I am literally stunned! Thanks so much to everyone who nominated me…”mind-blown” doesn’t even begin to describe how I’m feeling right now…WOW!

    Hope everyone has a fun and safe weekend!!!

    Lauralyn Brickhouse recently posted..A Day at the BeachMy Profile

  16. Ms. Quote December 7, 2013 at 2:15 pm -  Reply

    Rori Thank you so much for including me on this very impressive list of sex bloggers! I’m embarrassed to say that I haven’t come across you and your blog earlier (I would have made some recommendations), but projects like this help bring attention some really great bloggers that offer some excellent sex-positive information (and other juicy and tasty photos, videos and erotic stories) that get cockblocked by search engines. I also appreciate the time that you and Cash put into compiling this list. I’m paying it forward with a post on my blog,, to give you and everyone on the list props.

    I know what kind of work goes into something like this. I hope you and everyone on this list consider contributing to #AdultSexEdMonth in June to help get credible sex-positive information out to people, especially to people who wouldn’t otherwise find it through seemingless obvious and simple search engine queries. While it was a huge success last year, I felt that we didn’t get enough information on safe, sane and consensual D/s, BDSM and kink information. You can find out more about #AdultSexEdMonth at and

    Ms. Quote recently posted..I’m Number 14!My Profile

  17. Sadey Quinn December 7, 2013 at 2:51 pm -  Reply

    Thanks, Rori, what an honor! An among such great company. :)
    Sadey Quinn recently posted..I Am Not A Submissive SlutMy Profile

  18. Ali December 7, 2013 at 3:15 pm -  Reply

    I’m so honoured to have made the list, I have such high respect for many of the other bloggers on there.

    And I’m especially excited for my blogger friend Gritty Woman. She has put a lot of work into her blog, she’s very deserving of the title ‘New Voice of the Year’
    Ali recently posted..PULSEMy Profile

  19. tori December 7, 2013 at 5:04 pm -  Reply


    Im shocked, delighted, this is a first for me i believe, and totally unexpected….thankyou ever so much.

    Im going to make an effort to check out the other blogs, expand the horizon lol

    Look forward to ‘meeting’ fellow bloggers.

  20. cliticalJenne December 7, 2013 at 6:45 pm -  Reply

    I wanted to say congratulations to all the great bloggers on this list!!!

    I also wanted to let people know about my own blog:

    You can find me on twitter at @cliticaljenne.

    Again congrats everyone!

  21. Marie Rebelle December 7, 2013 at 7:52 pm -  Reply

    Thank you so much for including me in the list and congrats to all the others on the list. Special congrats to the lovely Lady Pandorah!

    Rebel xox
    Marie Rebelle recently posted..Fourth update: 101 things in 1001 daysMy Profile

  22. perversecowgirl December 7, 2013 at 8:06 pm -  Reply

    Ermagherrrrrd! I can’t believe I made the list! Amazing. <3

  23. Xanet Pailet December 7, 2013 at 9:20 pm -  Reply

    Hi Rory! Thanks for posting this…It is really awesome and I will promote it on my blog as well. I would love for you to check out my website which has tons of information and my weekly sex advice blog “The Pleasure Page”. I look forward to staying connected.

  24. Secretly Sensuous (Santha Smith) December 7, 2013 at 10:44 pm -  Reply

    I didn’t even know about this! i am so shocked and totally honored…and a little blown away at the moment.


    Thank you.
    Secretly Sensuous (Santha Smith) recently posted..When Beauty Rides ByMy Profile

  25. Jon Pressick December 7, 2013 at 11:05 pm -  Reply

    Congrats to all of you sexy bloggers out there!
    I look forward to checking out all of these pages, especially the ones I don’t yet read.

    Please consider submitting your work to the anthology I am editing for Cleis Press, Best Sex Writing 2015. Details are at the link below. Please note the submission deadline is fast approaching—December 31!
    Jon Pressick recently posted..Sex News! I love it! December 8, 2013My Profile

  26. Cheeky Minx December 8, 2013 at 12:58 am -  Reply

    Thank you so much for this wonderful honour, Rori. I’m truly tickled to be among so many friends and such talented creators.
    Cheeky Minx recently posted..Decadent GesturesMy Profile

  27. thelongbean December 8, 2013 at 2:13 am -  Reply

    Thank you for all your hard work in compiling the list.

    It is so heartwarming that there are so many that are prepared to write about sex. Especially when people have such busy lives.
    thelongbean recently posted..Our Advent CalendarMy Profile

  28. Joan Price December 8, 2013 at 4:23 pm -  Reply

    I’m thrilled to be on this list again. Am I the oldest, at age 70? ;) It’s rewarding to among these stellar sex bloggers and it’s a delight to discover terrific blogs that I didn’t know about.

    Rori, thank you. Your labor of love (labor of lust?) enables sex-positive readers to find us. That’s huge. I’m grateful.

    Get up, everyone, and let’s give Rori a standing ovation — a different kind of “big O”!
    Joan Price recently posted..Minna Limon: Cute, Squeezable VibratorMy Profile

  29. Cheeky Minx December 8, 2013 at 11:17 pm -  Reply

    Hi Rori,

    I’ve just noticed the URL for my blog is my old Blogger address. The new one is

    Thanks again for this wonderful honour!

    Cheeky Minx recently posted..Decadent GesturesMy Profile

  30. sexyduchess December 8, 2013 at 11:22 pm -  Reply

    Thank you for this list – as I am getting myself back into the blogging game, I appreciate finding a new group of writers to explore. xo
    sexyduchess recently posted..Playing at SensuousnessMy Profile

  31. Ayzad December 9, 2013 at 9:12 am -  Reply

    Oh. So there goes my productivity. Again.

    Thanks a lot for the list, Rori! It will be extremely interesting to discover the voices I’ve missed so far…

    By the way, when you have time you are welcome to come over and visit my own blog – drop a comment if you enjoy it.
    Ayzad recently posted..BDSM MozartMy Profile

  32. Mia December 9, 2013 at 2:01 pm -  Reply

    Another amazing list of wonderful sex bloggers!! Thank you for all the hard work that will have gone into organising and compiling this list!

    I’m a sporadic blogger but if anyone wants to check out what I have done so far they can do here

    ~Mia~ xx
    Mia recently posted..FunishmentMy Profile

  33. TJtheMadHatter December 10, 2013 at 1:23 pm -  Reply

    This is such a pleasant shock. Thank you so much. I am honored to be on the list, and am still surprised to see my name up there. This couldn’t have come a better time. Thank you so much!
    TJtheMadHatter recently posted..Review : Nox from Bad DragonMy Profile

  34. SexyLittleIdeas December 12, 2013 at 3:31 pm -  Reply

    oh hello.
    thank u, Sweet “Between My Sheets” Rori, IF that IS your real name. :)

  35. Jayde onyx lei December 14, 2013 at 6:39 pm -  Reply

    Hey I am fairly new to the game so I was hoping by a long shot to be added but wasn’t I understand. Hopefully next year!

    Jayde Onyx Lei

  36. Cam December 22, 2013 at 7:57 pm -  Reply

    Great list of bloggers, hoping to make it on next year. ;)
    Cam recently posted..On slipping.My Profile

  37. Darren Michaels December 22, 2013 at 10:51 pm -  Reply

    Hello Rori,

    I wanted to submit my blog and some of my work for your consideration. I have a unique presentation of erotica; my book is 12 stories from the woman’s point of view, and then you flip it over and read the same 12 stories from the man’s point of view. I’d love to know what you think.

    Look forward to hearing your thoughts on the work.


  38. Cody Kmoch January 3, 2014 at 10:06 pm -  Reply

    Hi Rori,

    I love that I’ve made the list, at position 100! Thanks so much for inviting submissions in such a nice way!

    I’d love for you or your readers to drop by my blog. I post imaginative all-girl stories that I think you might enjoy.

    Thanks again, and best wishes,

    Cody Kmoch recently posted..llust sevenMy Profile

  39. Joan Price January 17, 2014 at 2:12 pm -  Reply

    Glamour Brazil listed its 100 best sexuality blogs in the world:

    I’m delighted to be on their list, but I also realize that Glamour Brazil must have started with your list, then modified and added — but without ever mentioning/ crediting you, Rori.

    Those of us who are on both lists do realize that the hard work was done by YOU.
    Joan Price recently posted..Herbs for Sexual Enhancement, guest post by pharmacist Paul RobertsMy Profile

  40. Jess Wallace May 22, 2014 at 11:02 am -  Reply

    Hey folks!

    I’m super new to sex blogging but I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoy writing it.

    Stay with me while I get posts out and please do comment!

    Jess Wallace recently posted..At A.’s again.My Profile

  41. Dave July 7, 2015 at 2:19 am -  Reply

    I have been writing a sex blog for several years now…I think it’s funny and interesting as I cover a wide variety of topics (all sexual) from BDSM, bargain bondage, squirting, sex and the law and things like science and how sexual attitudes are changing with the internet. Check it out and consider me for your next list:

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