It’s my favorite time of year: time for my annual sex bloggers list!
Before we get to it, remember to check out the top sex bloggers who have been retired from the list (previous first place winners or those who have been in the top ten three times):
This year, I’m also giving out three additional awards:
New Voice of the Year: Mr. AbsinthePassion
Podcast of the Year: Sex Nerd Sandra (Runner up: The Masocast)
Post that Made Rori Cum Hardest During Judging: “Please hit me again Sir…” from Sexual Life of a Sexual Wife (This whole blog is one big sploosh for me…and that, my friends, is way it ranks so high despite not being update nearly as much as most others on this list!)
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And now for the main attraction, the list you’ve all been waiting for…I give you your Top Sex Bloggers of 2012! (Please note that this list is CREATIVE COMMONS license, which means that you are welcome to republish it on your own blog as long as you give credit by linking back to this post. Code to copy/paste can be found at the end of the post!)
My challenge to all of you this year is to visit at least ten blogs on this list that you’ve never visited before and leave at least one comment. Make new friends. Follow new, amazing writers. Dance and be merry. And tell ‘em Rori sent ya!
100. YOU! As always, I want to leave a place on this list for ALL the awesome sex bloggers out there! So please leave a comment on Between My Sheets with your name/URL to tell us about your sexy blog!
Congrats to everyone listed this year. Want a button for your sidebar or a blog post? Here ya go (feel free to edit this one or create your own!):
Want to put this list on your own blog? You’re more than welcome to do so! Please link back to this blog post to give credit. Here’s the code for the entire list:
Or if you just want to post the top ten, here’s the code for that:
In addition, I wanted to give a hearty “We’ll miss you!!” to some awesome sex bloggers who decide to call it quits this year. These are bloggers who have actually said they are done or deleted their blogs, not just bloggers who haven’t updated in a few months. This year, we said goodbye to:
- Riff Dog from Ashley and Me
- _sub_girl from _sub_girl: lost
- DDD from Dick Dyke Dick
- Electronic Doll from Post Modern Sleaze
- Captain Shame from Red Lion Street
We’ll also miss The Big Ugly, but hope she’ll be back after her legal problems are settled.
Happy trails, everyone! Don’t be strangers, even if you aren’t sex bloggers yourselves anymore! (Know someone to add this list? Let me know! Didn’t mean to miss anyone!)
A few final housekeeping notes:
- Why didn’t you or your favorite sex blogger make the list? Read this post. It probably wasn’t personal! We had over 250 different blogs nominated this year.
- Your number is relative to the other bloggers on this list, not relative to your position last year. So, if you were #10 last year an are #40 this year, that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a worse blogger than you were last year. Besides, you really shouldn’t care too much about this list. After all, it’s just one person’s humble opinion. Don’t beat yourself up if you aren’t as high on the list as you thought you might be or even if you aren’t on the list at all. Just use it as motivating to continue to grow as a blogger!
- If you find a broken link, let me know! With a list this big, there are bound to be a few errors.
- If you’re on the list and want to be called a different name (names are tricky in this blogging niche) or want me to add your Twitter handle, let me know!
And stay tuned! Tomorrow, I’ll start announcing the winners of the comment content who will get some very cool vibrating prizes for nominating bloggers for this year’s list!
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Rori is the founder of Between My Sheets. She works full time as a writer, reviewer, and online educator and can be reached at rori-at-betweenmysheets.com
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Oh Rori…. I am sitting here with tears rolling down my cheeks. I completely agree with you when you say we shouldn’t really care about this list as it is just one blogger’s opinion but I also know that that is why it means so much to me as this is one blogger’s opinion who counts. Every year you take so much time and effort to compile a list that reflects so well on the whole sex-blogging world, you understand that this list is about shining a light on a community of people who work hard to produce content that is unique, challenging, innovative, sexy, thought-provoking and so much more. To find myself at the top of that list is probably one of the most amazingly wonderful endorsements of my work, ever! I am honoured beyond anything words can possibly describe and all I have to offer in return is THANK YOU!
Mollyxxx
Ps.. To everyone who nominated me for this list a massive big thank you as well. I write my blog for the love of it and knowing that others get something out of it too is the icing on the cake
Molly recently posted..Always Wet
You deserve it, Molly! You put so much work into not only making your blog awesome, but also doing stuff for the community, like giving people a place to blog anonymously, promoting pussy pride, etc. that it was a no-brainer for me this year who should top the list.
Ooh congrats! And didn’t even know it existed! (shame on me) but I’ll try and remember next time!
Rose recently posted..Sinful Sunday: Outfit
I’m deeply complimented. I always think of myself as a rather cranky, fusty writer. Thank you so much for your vote of confidence!
Remittance Girl recently posted..Gaijin & Splinter re-released on Kindle, ePub and PDF #burningbookpress
Thank you so much, Rori, for all the hard work you put into this list every year!! So excited to be on the list a second time! ^_^
Bre recently posted..2012′s Top 100 Sex Bloggers
Oh wow, oh wow, oh wow. And there is my name – which was both unexpected and a surprise. Thank you for coming by and including me.
I love Mr. AP also! Woo hoo! What a fun list and what perfect timing with the holidays upon us!
Kitty the Submissive Wife recently posted..Things Change (and change)
WOW! and YAY! Holy shit! I can’t imagine how much work it must be to do this list, Rori, so I thank you for the effort and I also thank you for including me on the list! I’m among a great many talented writers, so this is quite an honor.
Hyacinth Jones recently posted..I was kissed.
Congrats Hy,
You deserve it!!!
HH recently posted..WE INTERRUPT THIS STORY TO TELL YOU. . .
Thanks, HH! I was just about to leave a note for Rori to say the link to My Sex Life With Lola isn’t correct. I fixed it on my list, but the master list isn’t right
And congrats to you, too, friend!
Thank you for all the hard work in compiling your list! This made my morning. I can’t wait to dive into this new set of blogs. I can’t believe that half of these I don’t even recognize. That won’t do
ST recently posted..Casual Safety.
Hi, Rori,
Thank you SO much ~ i’m totally thrilled to be on the list at all, and i confess, being number 13 is practically breath-taking. I always think of myself as a boutique blog ~ you know that odd little shop you wander into to look at the wind chimes and discover some interesting artwork and an odd assortment of books and incense. Not everyone’s cup of tea.
So i’m super honored, and can’t wait to run around and read everyone else’s blogs. Thank you again.
aisha
aisha recently posted..20 ~ A Dash of Fantasy
Wow! I had not expected to be on the list! What a surprise this morning, when someone tweeted me congratulating me. =^^= Thank you so much, and congratulations to all the other people who got on the list, too.
Red Vinyl Kitty recently posted..We Hate It Here
Wow! I am very honored to be on this list. It was a big surprise. Thank you to those who voted for our blog. We are very proud of it.
Congrats to all of those on the list!
Big hugs,
padme amidala from Journey to the Darkside
padme amidala recently posted..Top 100 Sex bloggers of 2012
So well done Padme Amidala!
We are fellow sex bloggers as well. Padme Amidala was one of the reasons why we gave it a whirl! We have been blogging only a short time (about 2 years) and have learned so much. We are a work in progress, ideas and creativity flowing more frequently now.
We would be honored to have our blogged checked out sometime!
Congrats to all everyone on the List!!
Sensual Sierra from The Road of Sensuality
SensualSierra recently posted..2nd Anniversary!
You so rock for going to all of this trouble and putting this all together. I love sharing your top 100 with my fans because there is something on here for EVERYONE. Sex is fascinating… so many diverse tastes, fetishes and interests. Your list always encompasses every style under the sun. For that, you deserve a big ol MUAH!
Chrystal Bougon recently posted..3 Easy Tips from Bliss: Have more sex with your wife or girlfriend
Thank you, Rori for taking the time to put this together! And I’m on top of the world right now! I’m so honored to have my name up there among so many others I respect and love! XO!
Sunny Megatron recently posted..The Future of Pleasure: How Technology is shaping Today’s Sex Toy Trends
Oh wow, I’ve got a lot of reading to do (and improving to do if I want to make this list next year
)
Dexxx recently posted..A reappearance
I’m thrilled to be on this list again this year! My sex & aging blog is so different from most of the sex blogs, and I appreciate that you value what I do. Thank you!
Joan Price recently posted..When the man no longer wants sex: guest post by Jason Kae-Smith
Is the button code working for the rest of you? It’s not working right in Blogger. Doesn’t show the photo. I’ll work around it for now by copying the image.
Joan Price recently posted..When the man no longer wants sex: guest post by Jason Kae-Smith
I had problems with the button code, too. I had to save the picture and use it that way, instead…I couldn’t get the list code to work, either. Was that just me?
Hm, I’ll check into it. I worked all night to finish this list, so my eyes were going a little crossed looking at code by the end!
Okay, I think I’ve isolated and fixed the problem. If it’s still not working, please let me know!
Thanks ladies for finding the problem so I could fix!
I’ll look into it Joan and see if I can get it working!
I am honored, proud, humble. I will attempt to live up to the confidence you and the Academy have shown in me. (I agree, it’s sweet and fantastic of you to go to the trouble of posting the list, so I re-posted it on my site.)
Theo Black recently posted..Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2012
Big, big congrats Theo!!! So glad for you!!!
HH recently posted..WE INTERRUPT THIS STORY TO TELL YOU. . .
Yay, Theo! Very well-deserved, my sexy friend. xoxo
Oh wow! I had no idea I was on this sexy, fun list. Thanks, one and all!
TemptingSweets99 recently posted..TMI Tuesday: November 20, 2012
Yeah!!! You are to tempting, who could resist? Congrats!
HH recently posted..WE INTERRUPT THIS STORY TO TELL YOU. . .
Great list! Thanks for the hard work you put in scouting all those out. I was surprised (and pleased) to see my name on it.
Theothers1 recently posted..Succubus
Yeah!!!!!! See , your work pays off!
HH recently posted..WE INTERRUPT THIS STORY TO TELL YOU. . .
Hi Rori!
I’m absolutely tickled to be on this list, and cannot wait to read some new blogs.
Thanks a mill!
xoxoxo
Fatal
Tickled! Spanked! You ARE so deserving of this and I’m so glad to be in your company!!!
HH recently posted..WE INTERRUPT THIS STORY TO TELL YOU. . .
Congratulations to all the wonderful bloggers who’re on the list – you’re all amazing
Congratulations also to everyone who was nominated, whether you’re on the top 100 list or not. You’re great bloggers and keep on doing your thing!
Thank you Rori, once again, for putting in all the hard yards and compiling this. You’re a gem!
xx Dee
Curvaceous Dee recently posted..e[lust] #41
I’m stunned. Absolutely floored. You honour me above my station, Rori. Thank you. With the deepest gratitude and reverence, thank you.
Stay SINful
Mr. AP
Mr. AbsinthePassion recently posted..An Update, AP Style
It’s a well-deserved award. Not only are you a great writer, but the fact that you’ve made the effort to get to know other sex bloggers as well is something most people don’t take the time to do. Keep up the amazing blogging work, Mr. AP!
No makes more of an effort than Mr.AP.
I’m glad you acknowledged him as well.
Congratulations to all the sexy bloggers and my friends on here that made the list! I’m going to have to pay more attention next year!!!! Would love to join you all on here!
~ Vista
Victoria Vista recently posted..Saturday Eye Candy!
Some of my faves made the list AND I get to explore some I didn’t know existed…love it! I didn’t realize this list existed, very cool!
Kayla Lords recently posted..True Love
Thanks, Rori
Always nice to see myself in such good company.
I wasn’t on the list at all last year, but I was on it in 2010. Is that because I was in the hospital recovering when you judged blogs last year? I’m not bothered by it or anything — I’m just curious.
Keep up the good work!
Clarisse Thorn recently posted..[postsecret] Stories of People Whose Partners Cheated
You know, I’m not sure. I read so many blogs that I can’t remember! Sometimes, it’s because the blog hasn’t been updated in a long time. Sometimes it’s just a matter of missing people who deserve to be on the list. Sometimes, it’s just relative and when I go through and read your blog, there’s nothing making you stand out at the moment while other bloggers are doing amazing things at the moment. There’s an element of luck with all this too, because I start reading blogs in August and don’t finish until November, so it just depends what is going on with your blog when I visit. It’s not always 100% fair, but since I’m only one person I do the best I can.
Congrats all!
viemoira! Do I need to add your blog to the RIP list?
When I checked, it was gone, but I wasn’t sure if it was gone for good or just a problem at the moment. I totally missed it if you talked about leaving (with all the judging, didn’t have much time to read all the blogs I normally read on a regular basis).
Wow, I had NO idea I was nominated, I’m so pleasantly surprised and honored to be in such excellent company! I definitely have some reading to do and new blogs to explore!
Thank you for the exhaustive work you’ve done in this list – not an easy feat at all. We all deeply appreciate it!
For anyone who wants to follow me on twitter, you can do so at @bi_and_bi
Bilikesscifi recently posted..He got off to my laugh
Rori,
Thank you so much for the huge honor of being on your list again! You have created a tremendous project for yourself to read through so many great writers… a lot of work for you to do all this. I am so happy to be a part of it!
Now I get to read so many new things from your efforts (already started.. wow!)
L.D.
Oh…my…gawd…so much new reading material – I’ll need to take at least a week off of work to get through this all. Thanks for all the great suggestions!
Brigit Delaney recently posted..TMI – A piece of ass
Congrats to you!!!
HH recently posted..WE INTERRUPT THIS STORY TO TELL YOU. . .
Oh, wow, Rori! Thank you so much for taking the time to compile this – so many of my favorites are here, and I’M THERE TOO and that’s like…. major, in my little blogger’s head.
I’m excited to explore some of the stuff I haven’t read too.
Thank you, again, so much. Your lists are not only a timely reminder of who’s going hot RIGHT NOW, but the lists of years past are lovely historical reminders of what was going on THEN. That’s pretty major, from a historian’s perspective.
Conina recently posted..Journeys end in lovers meeting
I love that aspect too, Conina! It’s bittersweet to see so many bloggers from my first list have closed their doors, while so many new bloggers have joined the field.
Good gracious! This is soooo cool to see so many of my blogging friends listed. And I can’t wait to make new ones! Thank you SOOOO much for all the work that went into this. Your ROCK Miss Rori!
XOXOX!!!
Marian Green recently posted..Feverish Orgasms
First of all, congratulations to all who are on the list. Molly, you SO deserve that number 1 spot!
Then, thanks to all who have nominated me for the list! I feel very privileged to be on it and to see my name between all the blogs I admire! The words on my blog come from my heart. Thank you all for reading them!
Rori, thank you so much for giving people the opportunity to vote and for taking the time to compile this list. I can just imagine what a huge job this has been!
Love,
Rebel xox
Marie Rebelle recently posted..Good Girl Rebel
Rori, I’m truly touched, humbled and honoured to be in the company of so many talented writers. In fact, my placing has left me lightheaded in the best possible way. My thanks to you also for your tireless work (I loved your tweet on the reasons behind the delay, btw!) and this wonderful project. It truly brings us together and allows us to discover new and exciting voices.
Thank you again, lovely.
~Minx x
Cheeky Minx recently posted..Nocturne
I, too, thank you for all the hard work. I don’t know how you found the time to work it all out.
I will certainly be looking at some new blogs as a result.
XOXO
thelongbean recently posted..Zack’ and Dee’s playroom
Congratulations to all who made the top 100 and to those nominated. Although my blog has only been around since jan/Feb this year, I would hope that one day to be lucky enough to be at the level of those mentioned.
Big congrats to Molly, well deserved, you’ve worked hard this year xx
http://www.naughtycornerreviews.com
Ahhh – so much inspiration in this list of remarkable writers! Thanks for honoring me with inclusion and thanks for taking the time to put this all together, Rori! Very much appreciated.
Ruby Ryder recently posted..Sexual Honesty
Sounds Like some of your winners need a Spanking1
Dear Rori,
So, we just saw this and already it looks like we are WAY behind the curve on saying THANK YOU for all your hard work and devotion!!! We’re so honored to be on your list!!!
Thanks also to all of you who voted for us!!! Most of all, thanks to all of you who read us, comment on our blog, write us e-mails, and jack/jill it to our writings and pics. We’re happy to bring you joy!
Thanks again everyone! and congrats to all our friends who won and to all the folks on the list – we’ll be checking you out soon!
Lo & HH
HH recently posted..WE INTERRUPT THIS STORY TO TELL YOU. . .
I’m not sure I qualify as a sex blogger but I am deeply honoured. Thank you.
Romantic Dominant recently posted..Wanting
Great list! Many thanks for doing this! It’s was a big step in getting me to start blogging last year! and thanks for including two of my faves – #73 Naughty Kitty and #95 Pony Boy! I’ve given them a shout-out and linked to the list at
http://samesassygirl.blogspot.com/2012/11/2012-top-100-sexy-blogs.html
Sassy recently posted..2012 Top 100 Sexy Blogs
Thanks Sassy! You’re too kind.
Wow well done to everyone!
And how great it is that you do this
Hopefully I could be on there next year
xx
Little Miss recently posted..I Am So Not Jell
Wow! thanks, I’m blown away, I totally did not even know I was a contender. Thank you so much for the recognition. I hope you’ve enjoyed reading.
Peroxide recently posted..Holy Shit!
I’m so grateful for this list! How convenient! Thank you.
Sukie Jones recently posted..22. meanwhile in real life (what open looks like for us)
Thank you – I’m incredibly flattered to be included. And now I’m off to try and read everyone on the list =)
Girl on the Net recently posted..On adverts for the ladies
Oh, my.
Thank you!
This really is a surprise.
I didn’t even know I had been nominated this year. I haven’t been writing that much lately and thought people had given up on me. Luckily, I had a writing spurt last week, and even managed to produce a small Story. Or vignette. Very dark, in any case. Where DO these things come from?
Anyway, thanks so much for continuing to have faith in me. It means more than it should.
oatmeal girl
Submission & Metaphor
http://submissionandmetaphor.blogspot.com/
oatmeal girl recently posted..My butt hurts. My heart doesn’t.
Congrats to everyone! I just started my own blog last month! I would love to someday make this list! Please check it out! I will also put this list link on my blog! Thanks all!
Just found out about this list– thanks for compiling it– how exciting!
Wow, wow, wow! Thank you, Rori!
Roxy recently posted..Holy Fuck – I Made the List!
RORI
Thank you so, so much for all your work in putting all this together. I feel so honoured to be among such wonderful, interesting, exciting and inspirational company.
I see lots of people I already know, and read regularly here, but also many new ones. I shall be sure to visit them all over the coming days!
With best wishes – Modesty
Modesty Ablaze recently posted..And now for something completely different !!!
First time here and think this list is fabulous and gives me many new blogds to check out.
Kirsti recently posted..Happy Thanksgiving!
Thanks to all who voted, for us and for everyone else!
Mina Lamieux recently posted..our open marriage – provoking TC
We are glad to be included! It blows our minds that anyone out there sees fit to read what we post, so the notion that what we do is actually enjoyed gives us so much happiness. Initially we didn’t blog for the community aspect; it was more about giving voice to things we couldn’t discuss publicly, and keeping a record of our sexual escapades. In the last year, however, we have come to really value our interactions with other sex bloggers, and we are pleased to be in such good company.
Congratulations to all!
Jack and Jill recently posted..Wicked Wednesday: Lunch Break
Thank you so much Rori! I feel very honoured to be on your list and gosh – to have written the post that made you cum the hardest!!! Unbelievable! I’m quite simply chuffed!!!
Sophiax recently posted..Forgive me if I gush a little…
Congratulations to everyone on the list!
Also, I <3 Nr. 87.
Jillian
What an inspiring list of bloggers. Mine is relatively new on the block and I have been and will be getting even more inspiration from all the wonderful people on your list.
~Mia~ xx
Invitation to other bloggers who write about sex & aging, on this list or not, especially if you’re age 50+: Get in touch if you’d like to guest post with a particular topic on http://www.NakedAtOurAge.com (aka http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/). Of course you’ll get links back to your own blog. Please read my blog to see what I do and don’t cover — or uncover — first!
Joan Price recently posted..Things You’ll Never Hear Him Say When He Sees You Naked
Can we all stand up and give Rori a resounding round of applause for all the work she put into this list? Hurray, Rori! Thank you from all of us!
Joan Price recently posted..Things You’ll Never Hear Him Say When He Sees You Naked
For your attention! At no. 78, both the links for My Dissolute Life and NLikes twitter account link to his mobile.twitter acount, rather than his blog and his web-browser twitter page.
Also, thank you so much for including my site again. Much appreciated. And I could not agree with you more about having Molly at no. 1.
Sorry I’m so late in this, but thank you for once again including me in this list. I hear what you’re saying about it just being one person’s opinion, but it’s still one of the greatest complements of my blogging career. It really does cause warmth in my heart and stirring in my pants.
Lucas recently posted..Thanx!
I have to admit, at first I didn’t care if I was on the list.
Then I really cared, being relatively new to blogging it is nice to be acknowledged by other respected bloggers so it means a lot.
I can’t imagine how much work it must be to read through everything and put this together, I imagine a few bottles of wine.
Thanks for doing it, it clearly means a lot to a lot of people.
Ponyboy recently posted..Can You Fuck A Pussy Too Hard?
Well look at that, I stop trying to be a ‘sex blogger’ and blog about whatever I want and I end up on this list for the first time!
Thanks Rori!
Now I’m off to find the nominations post so I know who to thank for nominating me…
Hubman recently posted..Sinful Sunday – Stiff
Wow! Thanks so much for this. It’s an honor to see myself on a list with other bloggers I respect and admire so much. I look forward to exploring and trying to live up to my spot!
Dev recently posted..Slave Contract
Rori…
First…giant applause for all the work you do in preparing this list annually. And yes, it is one woman’s opinion, but you can see what an impact YOU have in this community…we who blog thank you…for your time, for your thoughtful postings not related to the list, and for giving a forum for blogs that some of us (including me!) may never have seen before. This is an awesome place to come to find voices in a community that in most instances, must stay hidden in little corners….thank you for sharing the light of all of us sexy bloggers.
And I’ll tell you honestly that I was *thrilled* beyond all measure to find myself on the list for the 2nd year in a row, and in the top ten…it’s an honor to be there among so many wonderful blogs. Thank you, Rori.
Hugs and still happy dancin’…
nilla
nilla recently posted..Master and nilla
I just now heard about your list. After going over 100 posts & deciding I’m not just some freak writing to read my own words (lol), I’m going to check out all the other bloggers. Thank you so much for compiling this list!
~Tori
Tori Owens recently posted..Giving thanks
Hi Rori!
You and your readers should take a look at our blog. We love yours! I wish I had the time to post as often as you, but hopefully what I lack in numbers I make up for in quality!
http://www.femdomfiancee.blogspot.com
I’d love to know what you think!
Miss Lin
I have been laying low for a while now, it is good to see some familiar faces and names still around. Miss this side of my world.
I was so surprised to find myself on this list! I was nominated 1x, I think, and I wasn’t really eligible for a number of reasons. But thank you for thinking of me!!
<3,
L.
Liza recently posted..Morning, Noon and Night*
As a relatively new face in the adult erotica world I have been blessed with some awesome friends who made your list. I always love new visitors so would welcome any and all new people and opinions on my writing..
Great list of a lot of nice erotic readings for bed time… My evenings will be filled with thrilling blogs.
I wish one day my blog will appear on this list: that will mean people enjoy my writing.
Keep it up BetweenMySheets!
Kisses,
A.
asumi recently posted..The List or Entry Number 28
Thank you, Rori, for including me!
xoxox~Sadue
Sadie Smythe recently posted..Sadie Says … Test
I LOVE this list. Hopefully my blog will be featured.
Thank you!
That list is the best!
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