134 Responses to “Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2009”

  1. Nadia West says:

    So glad to see the list out! (And so glad to be on it again.) I loved judging and I’m glad to see The Beautiful Kind do so well, it was the best of the blogs I judged.

  2. Wow! Fantastic list. This is wonderful and so full of great bloggers for everyone to check out. And I plan on checking out each one that I do not already follow. Thanks millions!


  3. Raven Quince says:

    Wow! I’m in shock and so very grateful to have made the list as I’m relatively new to sex blogging. Thank you judges for your support. I’m in some incredible company.

  4. hubman says:

    You want a beef? How does someone like Anal Amy, who has barely published anything in almost a year, make it as #23? Not to pick on her, it’s just that I used to read her but was surprised to see her on this list, since she hasn’t published anything since August. Makes me wonder about the frequency of posting criteria…

  5. Mitzi Rae says:

    Awesome list — I just reposted on my blog along with a link back to your page and am adding the link to my Hot Links page for future reference :)

    Mitzi Rae

  6. Blackpearl says:

    Hoping that I can make the list next year!!! There’s a whole heap of filthy nonsense going on over on my blog, please cum by and weigh in on the misbehavior!!


  7. Joan Price says:

    I’m thrilled to be on your list this year — thank you! How wonderful that a blog about senior sex gets into the top 100!

    Thank you, Between My Sheets and guest judges!

    Joan Price

    Author of Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty

    Join us — we’re talking about ageless sexuality at

  8. I’m honored to have made the list! THANK YOU to all those who put in a good word for me! I want to thank my readers for their great interaction, and for my designer’s amazing talent – he ROCKS!

    And thank you, Nadia West! :)

    Question: I’m making my way down the list, checking in on my friends and making new acquaintances – why do some of the bloggers on this list not have a website url?

  9. Rori says:

    The Beautiful Kind,

    It if just has a … (such as 11. Sylvanus…), they write WITH the next person on the list at the same website.

  10. Joan Price says:

    I’m honored to be on your list! Thank you!

  11. maymay says:

    :) It feels particularly good to have been included in your list for the second year in a row, but for a completely different blog. Thanks for making me smile tonight. There indeed are some pretty good blogs on that list….

  12. As always, you’ve put a stunning amount of work into this list – and it’s great to see so many fantastic names on there!

    I am gutted to have missed out this year. Guess I need to pick my game up :)

    xx Dee

  13. Lola says:

    Awesome list. I’m new to the sex blog scene so…this is a great list :)

  14. Coquitten says:

    I am absolutely in shock! I think I might cry (a good kind of cry, of course).

    Thank you so much. I feel incredibly honored. Wow.

  15. The Fury says:

    Interesting list. It gives me plenty of new and unfamiliar territory to peruse. By all means, come peruse me at http://dirtydetails.blogspot.com as one of the 100+ group….

  16. Rori;
    Compiling this list is a huge amount of work and I’m glad we were able to help a bit this year.

    Even though we had fewer posts this year, it was nice to make the list again and I think ♀ will be tickled pink at being #69.

    ♀ & sss

  17. What a fabulous list! So many writers that I already read regularly. Now I have something to truly strive for this year. Thanks for giving me even more great blogs to check out. And, if you’d like to check out mine, I just put up my own (taking it out of WordPress) so that I can start reviews this week: http://www.scintillectual.com. :)

  18. Alexa says:

    Wow, I didn’t even know this existed. I am very honored to be on the list, especially among some of those who’ve been around for quite a while and for whom I have a great deal of admiration. A special thanks to whomever nominated me! Haha.

  19. Cecilia says:

    Amazing List! I’ll be very busy between my own sheets while reading these blogs.

    I’m new to the blogging world, and would love some company :)

    I blog both about my experience as a Sex Toy Goddess and as a belly dancer:

    Congrats to the Top 100!!

  20. sera says:

    I’m delighted to see this, Rori–I know how much work it was! And I feel so honored that my name is on the list. Thank you for doing this–I’m excited to have more wonderful blogs to explore!

    ~ sera

  21. Garnet says:

    Looks like a great list. I read several of those, but will have to look into more of them. Check out my blog at http://www.askgarnet.com

  22. Jake Holden says:

    Wow! Great list, I’m very pleased about my position – not sure I deserve it, but thank you everyone all the same!

  23. I’m thrilled and honoured and very flattered to be in the top ten again, thank you! I’ll continue to do my best to earn the placing! *kisses*

  24. A great list with some amazing bloggers! I’m shocked not to see Violet Blue and her Tiny Nibbles sit not on the list-or is that just me not being able to read?!

  25. Bab Bab Girl says:

    Thank you. I’m honored. :)

  26. Maybe I can make the list next year. I’d welcome some new readers over at


    Thanks for posting this list! I’ll have to check out some of the ones I don’t already follow.

    – PB

  27. What a great list . . .

  28. LivingFire says:

    Wow, it’s definately cool to see jake so high up there, one of my favourites! I’ll work on mine! Maybe with a lot of effort I might make the 2010 list! ;)

    LF x

  29. RonD says:

    There are some awesome folks on this list! I’ve only started blogging since July this year, so maybe I can make the list for 2010!

  30. Check out the adult comedy stylings of Mimi and Joseph at http://www.undressedreviews.com/

    It’s my favorite new blog.

  31. Vixen says:

    Rori- THANK YOU for compiling this list. I know it’s a tremendous amount of work. I was very honored and flattered to be a part of it, as well as to make the list myself.

  32. DeDe Deylnn says:

    I’m honored to be on the list for the first time! It was great fun participating in judging and congratulations all around.

  33. I’m honored to be included, and thank you so much…I remember reading this list last year and finding a bunch of new great blogs from it.

    At the risk of sounding ungrateful, I have to say that Curvaceous Dee (http://curvaceousdee.blogspot.com) should be a shoo-in for this. She’s amazing, posts great stuff on a regular basis, and is an excellent person to boot. Heck, she got me started blogging. :)

  34. I am really excited and honored to be in the Top 10 again this year! I have copied this list and put it onto my blog with a link back.

    Thank you for compiling this list and all the work that went into making it. I really appreciate it. :)
    Big Hugs,
    padme from Journey to the Darkside

  35. Lolita Wolf says:

    Thanks for including me on the list! I appreciate your hard work on compiling it. I’ll link back!

  36. Sara says:

    Promoting my new blog! It’s a sex and sex toy review blog called Fucking Awesome, and it’s just starting out. There are a number of reviews already up, with a couple more coming this week, so please check it out :)

  37. Jenni says:

    Wow, that’s a great list! And here’s probably yet another #100 http://lostgirley.wordpress.com/

  38. Literate Lady says:

    One that I adore and would encourage others to peruse is Mon Mouth.


    Congrats to all who made the list and I can’t wait to add a few more bookmarks to my collection.

  39. Luka says:

    Thank you for giving me a place in the Top 100 for the second year running! I am honoured and, frankly, amazed that my silly, satirical take on the world of sex blogging can stand alongside the genuinely sexy articles. It just goes to show what a wonderful sense of humour and inclusivity the sex blogging community has. Big kisses to all and be sure I shall be reading all on the list and sourcing new material!

  40. SubHeart says:

    Great list! And I am on it too! Thank you!

  41. ronjazz says:

    I am stunned. I didn’t even know that someone had put my name into consideration. Wow…Thank you. I guess this means now that I need to read others here…Just as I ask you to cum and read me. Anytime…

  42. nell says:

    Vix’s link to her Overeducated Nympho site(#36) is missing an “http://” so it won’t work.

    Anyway, good to see so many of the bloggers I love recognized here. Seems like quite an ambitious undertaking given how different the blogs are. Thanks for listing mine.

    I would also recommend D’jaevle and MonMouth.

  43. Dave says:

    I’m too new to have been considered for 2009, but I’m aiming for 2010.

  44. Amy says:

    Great list, when I get some time I’m definitely going to have a better look! Congratulations to everyone on there :)


  45. Wow, fabulous list and bravo for compiling it. I’m not surprised by those who made it, there is truly some fantastic writers out there, I’m just grateful they do write and then share it! I’d love if people would check mine out too, I adore new input and readers. And perhaps someday, I’ll be good enough to make the grade :)


    Love to all,

  46. Maybe next year! We have some real good writers working over at http://toywithme.com Sex, snark and hilarity posted five days a week. :)

  47. mina says:

    Thank you so much for including Sylvanus and I on the list! It truly is an honor since we didn’t make it on the list last year. It’s so good to see so many of our friends and talented writers here as well. Thank you again!

    xo mina

  48. nitebyrd says:

    I’m very happy to see many of my regular reads on this list. Thanks!

  49. Omigosh. Thank you!

    And congratulations to everyone else!

  50. Phew, I made it in this year… just! Thanks!

  51. mina says:

    I’ll have to say I was surprised to see Curvaceous Dee not included on this list. She is definitely list worthy! http://curvaceousdee.blogspot.com

    Check her out!

  52. trinity-pup says:

    Always next year, i guess!! :-)

    Congrats to all those on the list!

    Come and take a look at me…


    t. x

  53. Excellent list! I’m posting it on my site :)

  54. Robin says:

    Thank you so much! This was such a surprise.
    Now I just need to go check out all the fellow listees whose blogs I don’t already know. :)


  55. Distracted says:

    Oh, WOW!! Thank you so much. I am a giggly fan-girl to be included with so many that I read, admire, and drool over.

  56. Kayla says:

    That’s so awesome. There’s definitely a bunch of blogs that I read up in that list. :)

  57. Joan Price says:

    I’ve tweeted, Facebooked, blogged, and sent out emails to everyone about my #21 honor here. Thank you!

    Am I, at 66, the oldest sex blogger in this list?

    Thank you again, judges.

    It’s wonderful to come together and support each other with the enthusiasm I’m reading in these comments. I, too, look forward to making time to read everyone else’s blog. It would be nice if we comment on what we read, too — so often we bloggers have no idea if people are enjoying/learning from what we write.

    Joan Price
    Author of Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty

  58. Elle says:

    I can’t imagine how much work this must have been. Thanks for putting the list together, I’m honored to be in it!

  59. Aurore says:

    Wow! I was surprised to find myself on the list (genuinely) but I am in some amazing company!

    Thank you to the judges, especially Rori!

    I will be posting a link to this list and your blog shortly.

  60. May Ling Su says:

    Thanks for compiling this list. I’ll be checking out all 99 blogs (though some of them I already frequent). I hope I make it next year!

  61. Mistress160 says:

    Wonderful to see so many friends listed!

  62. Wow!!! Thank you so so so much!!!

    I’ve lulled in my blogging lately, and this is such a wonderful reminder that there is an amazing community of bloggers and readers out there. It’s also fantastic to be featured among other incredible sex bloggers since, when commenting and such, I stick mostly to the “spanking bloggers” world. I appreciate this immensely, and it’s a good kick in the pants to get back to writing.

    Thanks again, and best wishes,

  63. Tsunade says:

    Thank you for listing all of these great blogs for me to read. I am very new to things having only started blogging about finding my way in a D/s relationship with my husband for a few months, which I recount at Second Honeymoon.
    Thank you again and I’ll be passing the list along as well.

  64. Andy says:

    Well fuck! If you’re going to rate (and rank) us based partially on site design, all us lazy bastards with a crappy Blogger template don’t stand a chance.

    In all seriousness, this is a very nice list and based on the blogs I frequent I can’t disagree with your selections. So many new blogs to read, so little time.

    Thanks for all the work on this. Keep it up. ;)

  65. daniel says:

    Great list — lots of our very favorites on there, as well as some new places to explore!

    Come see us sometime…


  66. viemoira says:

    i am kinda just realizing this top 100 list based on a bunch of posts of many blogs i follow. i wanted to comment on a site that is fairly new but the posts and erotic stories are amazing and i hope you’ll consider her next year. My promotion is for vanilla mom @ http://vanillamom.wordpress.com/. Thanks for compiling this list – i am certain i will find some new blogs of interest.

  67. Charity Roux says:

    Ooh, a shiny new reading list :) Thanks so much!

  68. Awesome list, loads of new people to check out!

    I hope one day my blog, Purrversatility, will be on here too with all these great people.


  69. Kyle says:

    Thank you for including me on such an awesome list.

    You missed one of your judges, the incomparable Roxy. Also her blog url has changed and is now http://www.uncommoncuriosity.com.


  70. Jay says:

    That’s awesome everyone!! I’m definitely adding some of you to my favorites! I will start writing more on my blog to keep it updated and maybe shoot for 2010!!!

    Keep it up!

  71. Maybe I’ll make next year.

  72. ladypandorah says:

    Aww…I’m all flustered to my find myself at such a super position. Thanks guys and gals!

    I’ve been in a bit of a blogging slump lately, but I think this will perk me right back up into my old habits.

    LP x

  73. autumn says:

    wow! i dont know who put my name in there for nomination, but thank you so much for including me! what amazing company to be in right there on that list! i’ve seen many of them, but certainly not all. thank you Rori. i’m adding you to my “boytoys” list so i can check this out some more.

    loves autumn

  74. autumn says:

    i’m so very sorry, that would be my HOT GIRLS list…lol


  75. Oh goodness, an entire new list to look at! Recently new to the sex blogosphere I’m still figuring out what most appeals, but seeing several current favorites encourages me to check out everything else.

    As many have said I’ll hope to make the grade by this time next year!

    -Obedient Delilah

  76. The Duchess says:

    Wow, thanks so much to you and the judges! I look forward to all this new reading!

  77. Kimberly says:

    I am incredibly flattered to have made the list. I am very much looking forward to checking out those that I have not had the delight of reading yet!

  78. Epiphora says:

    I’m honored to rank so highly. Thanks to everyone involved for all their hard work!

  79. MarQe says:

    Never ceased to be amazed at how much effort people put in for things like this !! Well Done !!

    MarQe @ http://marqe.blogspot.com/

  80. Wilhelmina says:

    wow… i can’t believe i’m even on this!

    i’m pretty sure these aren’t on here, and i’m kind of surprised that they’re not. in any case, i’m leaving the URLs here for people to check out :)





    clearly i should nominate more people next time!

    i’m looking forward to checking out all the new blogs on this list that i haven’t read before :)

  81. Styxman says:

    Most best lists are open for debate, but there is no credibility to any list of the best sex bloggers that not only fails to recognize Library Vixen as the best of the genre but leaves her off altogether. I don’t know her, I’ve never communicated with her, but I can tell you she is the only sex blogger worth visiting every day. And she has fresh, provocative content virtually every day unlike any I’ve seen anywhere else. Library Vixen takes sex blogging to an art form. I’ve read many of the people on your list. Nobody is in the same league. Makes me want to travel to San Francisco and comb the libraries hoping for a glimpse.

  82. ThatToyChick says:

    Yay! I’m on under my lucky number! Totally made my day.

    I think, in addition to my Massive Manufacturer List, I’m gonna have to do an alphabetical sexblogger list too! It’d be neat to have an all-year round resource that can remain dynamic throughout the year, n’est pas?

    Much love to all my blogger peers, on the list and off. :)


  83. Lexi says:

    Wow what an awesome list! I will be checking each and everyone out and see what my peers are up to ;) Hope to make the 2010 list! @ThatToyChick I am working on my Manufacturer list as well, let’s swap lists ;)

  84. phallatio says:

    Wow! 99 new blogs to check out! Thank you so much. I’m a relative newbie to this. Still trying to add contributing subscribers.
    Needless to say, I would be enormously grateful if you’d check out my thoughts and true life experiences.
    Sending comradeship to all of you! Blogger is a beautiful place!

  85. Greg & jen says:

    We are totally psyched about being on this list…Thank you to all who nominated us as well as the judges who liked what they saw in our blog!!!!! Thank you Thank you!!

    G & j

  86. Mollena says:

    Well, thank you, Judges, for including me on this list! :-D

    I’m honored!


  87. Misty Kaye says:

    This list is awesome, I can’t wait to start exploring all of the blogs I haven’t seen before. I feel like I must be out of the loop, and I really prefer to be in loops. Or is it holes? Either way…

    Oh, and it would be great to see my humble little sex blog make the list next year. I’ll have to figure out what naughty things I can do to bribe the judge. ;)

  88. cleofaye says:

    I have a sex information website called sex etc… I cover everything, vanilla and kinky, straight and gay, because I am all of those things, and I want to share what I had to learn through trial and error so others don’t have to. http://www.sexetcetc.blogspot.com

  89. H. says:

    Wow… this is cool. I wished you’d have had this sort of rankings earlier and I would have stumbled upon them. It would have helped me a LOT a few years back, and a lot more a few months back, considering what I write about. It’s nice to find such a great list of people I can relate to, learn from, and share with. Thanks for that.

  90. AHH! A whole list of sexual fodder to peruse. I’m bookmarking this for sure. Thank you!

    My website is



  91. Ms. Justine says:

    Wow! Thanks so much! I remember looking at this site last year and thinking, I want to be on that list!

    I’m so flattered to be included and will keep up putting out good stuff. I’m looking forward to reading (perving) on the other sex bloggers on this list.

    I too am honored!

    –Ms. Justine

  92. Aubrey says:

    Thanks for the list, lots of reading to catch up on.
    I’d welcome some new readers over at


    (I recently moved over from http://smdesires.blogspot.com/)

  93. That’s a great list, I’ll have to go through a lot of these :)

  94. Spidr says:

    Way cool. Gives me something to aspire to, and a helpful push to post more!


  95. Vague says:

    I am also honored to have not been included along with so many talented people.


    (I takes my victories where I finds ‘em.)
    Vague, at http://littlesubmissions.wordpress.com/

  96. PervertedImp says:

    This is a great list. Thank you for creating it. I’ve got a lot of reading to do now. :)

    I just joined the blog world this year with my wordpress blog:

  97. Addansonia says:

    Thank you so much. I am a new blogger and all this is a great resource and inspiration.

    Check my blog sometime… i would be honored to have a comment, good or bad :)


  98. Allie says:

    Great list – I’m basically just going to import it to my bookmarks, and I’ll never go offline! :)

  99. River says:

    Thanks for the uber cool list!!! I’m excited about visiting all of these.

    I have a sex blog and just posted a very juicy interview with Lochai, it’s a must-see! The blog is The Juicy Truth. The address is: http://www.TheJuicyTruth.blogspot.com

    Thanks again for promoting the juiciest subject known yet to humankind.

  100. Blacksilk says:

    Awesome! I can’t believe I made it onto the list at all let alone got so high! Wow!

    Thanks very much, guys!

  101. Adriana says:

    holy holy crap. I didn’t even expect to make the list.. but to be that far up? WOW

  102. Essin' Em says:

    Oh! Quick question – is there a button for it this year? Thanks!

  103. We hope to make it into the list next year.

    Have a look at:


  104. Rogue says:

    Thank you.

    I’m just coming back online after a hiatus, and it was a treat to find this recognition. I hope to continue writing, sharing, networking more and more, andmaybe if I’m a good (bad?) boy, I’ll get a better grade next year, eh?

    Live shamelessly, all.

  105. This list is so much fun. Thanks for taking the time to make and share it!

    My sex blog would love more company. It’s definitely in the top 100 new sex blogs written by disabled bisexual chicks with crazy hair. Not to brag; I’m just being honest! http://www.quizzicalpussy.com

  106. Tom Allen says:

    I know I’m late to this, but I just wanted to drop a note to tell you that I appreciate the work that you all did on this list. I’m sure it wasn’t easy to cull through the bazillions of good blogs out there.

    Thanks again for picking The Edge of Vanilla. Ironically, my PC wnet down just when you published this, so I haven’t written anything in the last month. But I’m hoping to get that straightened out, and to live up to this honor.

  107. I am definitely bookmarking this page and share it with my friends.


  108. jamYe waXman says:

    Congrats to the 100. I look forward to reading the words you type. I blog over at my own site, more often now than I used too..http://www.jamyewaxman.com/blog and i’m also blogging over at Playgirl’s newest blog – http://www.playgirlvirtualsex.com! If anyone wants to try out the new playgirl virtual sex game, email me and I can make it happen too. hottwax @ gmail dot com. (you just have to blog abou ti).

  109. Croaker says:


    I would like to nominate my own blog. Please check it out. You may even like it :)


    Drop by and say hello, guys.

    Note: content may be offensive to squeamish people.

  110. Maybe I will make next years list!!!
    In the meantime I will go see who made it … fun times ahead I am certain.

  111. darla says:

    hi, i like your blog…pls you should like mine too…

  112. oatmeal girl says:

    What a job! So many blogs to dig through… when did you all have time to work on your own?

    I especially admire your bravery at inviting submissions (with me, it is always submission) of our own blogs for consideration… So, since you asked…

    For something a bit different and rather more poetic than the norm, please stop by my blog submission & metaphor: http://submissionandmetaphor.blogspot.com

    You can’t necessarily extrapolate from someone else’s reaction, but Vamp over at Jane’s Guide raved, so perhaps you’ll find me at least diverting.


  113. danielle says:

    ah…what a delightfull list..well done..:-)

  114. Allie says:

    Wow – thank you for providing me with reading material for a year!
    I look forward to checking out all of these blogs, and to being stimulated further!


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  116. Ohhh, be still my restless pussy! My reading list has just grown leaps and bounds. (NOTE To The Almighty Creator of All Things: Please grant me more time in the day to read at least half of this list! Please.)

    I will re-post this reading list to my website at http://www.Silvia-McKenzie-Navah.com with a link back to this page, as I am not going to sit and update the html to hotlink all the links. (Side Note: make the html to repost available to us (*wink*)).

    Silvia-McKenzie Navah

  117. Dog Kong says:

    Hi, great site!. How do I subscribe to your RSS feed to ensure I get notifed when you make new posts? Thanks

  118. Inferno says:

    Found some really cool site on that list.
    Great job!

  119. Kevin says:

    The whole compilation of sex bloggers is wonderful. Kudos! I’d surely be putting up my site next year!

  120. Joy Topaz says:

    Love the list – can spend hours checking out what others are writing about. Amazing that there is such a diverse group. I have to say I’m overall impressed with the list (those I’ve been through so far at least)

  121. Inferno says:

    I looked at this list a while ago and just kinda skimmed it…
    Decided to look at it all though.

    I made it through the entire list now… took a while.
    Some of the sites have moved, some have not updated in months, and some rarely did anyway.

    Overall however I found some really great stuff by some really interesting people.

    Great list.

  122. Taryn says:

    Hi, tonight was the first time I came across this blog and I can’t believe I’ve never seen it before! What an amazing idea and I can’t wait for the next update for 2010!

  123. Suck 53x says:

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  124. Os Cereja says:

    We loved this top 100!!!

    And loved your blog!!!


    Os cereja

  125. Hey! You missed me! ;)

    Two blogs:

    Davids Confessions: http://davidsconfessions.wordpress.com
    Davids Secret, Right Now: http://davidssecretrightnow.wordpress.com

    Great list!

  126. Househo says:

    Ahh the prestige to being on a list of 100 highly sexual bloggers. Fabulous! http://househo.wordpress.com/ is the ongoing adventures of an Open Marriage!

  127. I actually didn’t realize I was on the list until I saw that I got some traffic from here. Thank you so much!

  128. There is one missing: http://www.lovenlovelust.com? Pretty good sex blogging site! :) Either way a great list of sex bloggers.

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