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Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2008


UPDATE: I’m now accepting nominations for the 2009 List! Please go to this post today to nominate your favorite bloggers!

Back in July, I was named to a “Top Female Bloggers” list. It was an extreme honor, but it got me to thinking. In the sex/gender/erotic blogging community, there are a lot of people who work really hard on their blogs for not a lot of recognition. We aren’t tech bloggers or celebrity bloggers. Not that there’s anything wrong with writing about that kind of stuff…

But every day, as I read your blogs, I’m humbled. Everyone in this community has so much to share, so much to teach. We’re not writing about Paris’ latest wardrobe malfunction. We’re writing personal stories about our lives and opinions about sexuality. This is about sharing our hearts. Everyone is so deliciously different, too. I love it!

So, I decided to create a list of the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2008. Yes, I hope to make this an annual thing! “Sex Blogger” is a term I’m using loosely to mean anyone who blogs about gender, sex in society, erotic fiction, pornography, BDSM lifestyle choices…or anything else relating to sex and sexuality. (UPDATE: Read this if you aren’t on the list!)

Without further ado, here’s the list. You guys created it, I’m just posting it. I hope you’ll also check out the 2008 Sex Bloggers page to find out more about all of them.

1. Sinclair Sexsmith
2. Radical Vixen
3. Curvaceous Dee
4. Always Aroused Girl
5. Ellie Lumpesse
6. Catalina
7. Selena Kitt
8-9. Wifey and Hubby
10. Roger
11. Essin’ Em
12. Amber Rhea
13-14. Richard and Amy
15-16. MJ and MJ’s Slave
17. Thursday’s Child
18. Narration by D
19. Andrea Zanin
20. The Provocateur
21. Violet Blue
22. Autumn
23. SSS
24. Storm
25. Sub lyn
26. Tara Tainton
27. Jake
28. Cherry Bomb
29. Lakey
30. Scarlet
31. Glenpreece
32. Lolita Wolf
33. Vixen
34. Tom Paine
35. Tongue Tied Blue
36. Maymay
37. Miss Bliss
38. Mistress Maeve
39. Nadia
40. Luka
41-42. Odysseus and Penelope
43. Eileen
44. Calico
45. Caroline Shepherd
46. Kathleen
47. Packing Vocals
48. Audacia Ray
49. Axe
50. Baccus
51. Chelsea Summers
52. Debauchette
53. The Butterfly Temptress
54. Dirty Little Girl
55. Sexy Whispers
56. Wendy Blackheart
57-58. Padme and Anakin
59-60. Him and Her
61. Slip of a Girl
62. Blowjob Babe
63-64. Dirty Debbie and CJ
65. Scorpio
66. Charlotte
67. Bitchy Jones
68. Anastasisa
69. Alice
70. Anita Wagner
71. Jack
72. Mistress Matisse
73. Mariella
74. O
75. Shasta Gibson
76. Gwen
77. fivestar
78. Lilly
79. Penny
80. Figleaf
81. Tony
82. Viviane
83. Six
84. Bob
85-99. Fiammetta, Jill, Robyn, Scarlot, Melissa, Kitten, Karly, Holly, Surgeon, Stacey, Tara, Jessica, Gina, Wendy, and Tori

Why is #100 blank? Because I know there are dozens…hundreds…of other amazing sex bloggers out there, and I want everyone to be a part of this list. If you weren’t already include, please promote yourself and your blog with a comment below. You can also feel free to link to other people’s blogs in a comment. Anything goes! I hope you’ll copy/paste this list on your own blog, if you have one. You don’t have to link back here – just get the word out about these amazing bloggers. Or, create your own list! Again, I hope you this out the 2008 Sex Bloggers page, which goes into more detail about each amazing blogger above!

About Rori

Rori is the founder of Between My Sheets. She works full time as a writer, reviewer, and online educator and can be reached at


  1. Tara Tainton September 5, 2008 at 3:51 am -  Reply

    Wow! I’m the humbled one! Thanks so much for including me and my blog… which I’m still looking forward to having the time to return all the old favorite entries to since redesigning my site. :) Thank you so much; it’s a true honor to be listed by you.


  2. figleaf September 5, 2008 at 6:24 am -  Reply

    Wow, thanks for including me, Rori. But that’s not the cool part, it’s the other 99… 98 people on the list — so many I know and so many I might not have found otherwise. So thanks even more for that.

    Take care,


  3. Rori September 5, 2008 at 6:34 am -  Reply

    Thanks for stopping by, Tara and figleaf. This is totally what I hoped would happen – not just showing gratitude to the people who make it a pleasure to blog, but also help connect readers/bloggers to other bloggers that are smoking hot, but not necessarily well known. It’s an ice breaker. I hope everyone introduces themselves to all the cool people on this list and beyond!

  4. Jake September 5, 2008 at 10:09 am -  Reply

    Thanks Rori! I’ll make sure to link to this in a bit so we can all find blogs we might not already know about :)


  5. Mariella September 5, 2008 at 11:41 am -  Reply

    Thanks so much for the mention! So many wonderful writers on here–it’s a helluva list to be a part of! My site is actually under construction as of right now, while I straighten some things out and take steps in a few new directions, but I’ll be back to rights soon. In the mean time, I’m looking forward to poking around at these links I haven’t seen before, finding myself some new words to obsess over.


  6. MJ September 5, 2008 at 12:31 pm -  Reply

    W/we are very much appreciative of all our visiters/readers to have made this list… Thank you. s/nik is bounceing off the ceiling this morning, wishing she could tell someone of this. :)

    With Much Appreciation.


  7. Nadia September 5, 2008 at 1:06 pm -  Reply

    Wow, thanks for the honor. :-) There’s some really noted people up there, and little ol me. Cool.

  8. Curvaceous Dee September 5, 2008 at 1:26 pm -  Reply

    I think I might actually be lost for words here. Possibly because I’ve been tearing around the house shouting loud and happy things!

    Seriously though, I am completely blown away! Thank you so very, very much.

    I see a lot of familiar and well-read names here. And I see a lot of names that are new to me (three in the top 10, even). I can see I have some surfing and reading to do!

    *hugs and squeals and thanks all her lovers and readers*

  9. tongue-tied September 5, 2008 at 1:28 pm -  Reply

    wow – what a delightful surprise this morning! thank you for landing me in such esteemed company!

  10. sweat shop sissy September 5, 2008 at 1:34 pm -  Reply

    When I showed this list to ♀, she did the happy dance.
    It was very inspirational!

  11. Caroline September 5, 2008 at 1:45 pm -  Reply

    Ah, that’s awesome! Thank you for all this, it’s so cool and plus great way of finding blogs I didn’t know before!

  12. sinclair September 5, 2008 at 1:58 pm -  Reply

    wow, I don’t even know what to say! holy smokes! thanks for compiling this list, there are so many blogs on here that I don’t read regularly and it’s lovely to see htem all in the same place. I’m excited to go through them and find more blogs to read.

    and thanks very much, those who voted for me. I’m really surprised, & honored.

  13. tom paine September 5, 2008 at 2:04 pm -  Reply

    Thank you so much! What an honor to be among all these sexy men and women!!!

  14. Vixen September 5, 2008 at 2:20 pm -  Reply

    I am so beyond flattered, more like fall to floor *thunk* surprised. hehe

    Thank you so much!!!


  15. Luka September 5, 2008 at 3:06 pm -  Reply

    Thank you, I am chuffed to bits and totally surprised!

    What a treat for a grumpy, cynical old ratbag such as myself.

    I am grinning broadly and filled with delight (I’d like to be filled with wine, but that will have to wait until later).

  16. sub lyn September 5, 2008 at 3:44 pm -  Reply

    i join the others in expressing my surprise and gratitude for a spot on such a great list! Thank you! So many blogs, so little time…

  17. maymay September 5, 2008 at 4:19 pm -  Reply

    Wow…that is quite an impressive list. I’m thrilled to see my name among such company, though honestly a little surprised, too.

    Makes me want to keep writing more, which is of course (I imagine) very nice for all involved. :) Thanks, Rori.

  18. Holden September 5, 2008 at 4:50 pm -  Reply

    I’m totally amazed to be included in this list. Thank you very much. I also very much look forward to visiting the other blogs listed here.

  19. Viviane September 5, 2008 at 5:47 pm -  Reply

    Thank you for compiling the list, and thank you to the readers who nominated my site.

  20. Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek September 5, 2008 at 6:48 pm -  Reply

    You are amazing for putting this together, I can’t imagine how much work it must have been, holy wow! What a wonderful list! I’m surprised you didn’t take longer getting it out.

    I’m also honored and excited that I made it on the list, and like many others I am looking forward to looking at all the other blogs that I don’t already know!

  21. SubHeart September 5, 2008 at 10:07 pm -  Reply

    Great list! I wasnt on it, but thats ok…lol

  22. Dirty Debbie September 6, 2008 at 12:40 am -  Reply

    Thank you everyone.
    It’s a true compliment! I hope everyone keeps enjoying!

  23. roger (dirtyboy) September 6, 2008 at 1:38 am -  Reply

    awww thankyou! I made the top ten! I’m so delighted, never thought I’d do so well, especially in such good company. Thankyou, I’m delighted and thrilled – and will link to this post in the morning! Jumping up and down here excitedly!! xxx

  24. Lakey September 6, 2008 at 2:55 am -  Reply

    I am so totally honored, Rori. I’ve been in an ugly funk just lately and this helps more than you can know.

    And, just for the record, your threesome post with “Don’t move or I’ll stop!”? Is the hottest thing I have ever read. Thanks for your list and thank you for your writing, and for being you. I’d not have begun writing my blog were it not for yours.

  25. Andrea Zanin September 6, 2008 at 4:25 am -  Reply

    Wow, I’m honoured to be named in the company of such fine writers! Many thanks for running the contest and posting the results, and thanks to those who nominated and voted for me. I’m gonna go off and grin for a while now. It’s been many years since I was last happy to be 19! ;)

  26. Dee September 6, 2008 at 5:46 am -  Reply

    I would say that I am speechless, but everyone knows better! I am so honored to be on your list and to be in the company of these amazing bloggers. Kisses and hugs to all… Thank you for making my YEAR! ~~Dee

  27. Eileen September 6, 2008 at 9:07 am -  Reply

    Thanks, Rori. You’re very sweet to include me.

    I’m curious: is this list arranged by something? Or is it simply a randomly-ordered list?

  28. Lilly September 6, 2008 at 1:26 pm -  Reply

    Thanks for putting me on the list, I’m quite humbled. You did a great job with it all, don’t let anybody give you crap about it hon.

  29. padme amidala September 6, 2008 at 4:09 pm -  Reply

    Thank you for putting Master Anakin and I on the list! It was a big surprise. Great job with the list. I recognized a lot of blogs that I read on it. :)
    padme from Journey to the Darkside

  30. Amber Rhea September 6, 2008 at 7:14 pm -  Reply

    Thank you so much, Rori! I am honored to be on this list!

  31. Lolita Wolf September 6, 2008 at 7:23 pm -  Reply

    Wow, what a list! I am honored to be included. Thanks!

  32. Goose September 7, 2008 at 1:28 am -  Reply

    What a great idea!

  33. Thursday’s Child September 7, 2008 at 3:11 am -  Reply

    Wow, I’m speechless, absolutely flabbergasted. I have only just celebrated my one year blogging anniversary last month, and now, to be in the company of such amazing bloggers?! It’s truly an amazing honor -thanks to everyone!

  34. narrationbyd September 7, 2008 at 3:20 am -  Reply

    I would like to say thanks, though I don’t feel that my blog is any where near as good as those on the lists. I guess it goes to show that these days, a man can ride his wife’s coat tails to stardom! Thanks, I am honored. I didn’t know anyone really read too much of my blog!

  35. DanishCouple September 7, 2008 at 12:54 pm -  Reply

    Ohh to make the this list, one can but dream :)

  36. Essin’ Em September 7, 2008 at 7:32 pm -  Reply

    This list is full of amazing people, fabulous writers, interesting thinkers, and people I lust over. Thank you so much for compiling it!

    -Essin’ Em

  37. Janie Blooms September 7, 2008 at 9:03 pm -  Reply

    Terrific list! Well-done. I’m not on it, so I’m doing just what you said to do. Ha. Check me out, guys and gals, if you haven’t already!

  38. Shay September 8, 2008 at 3:07 pm -  Reply

    Wow! I feel like I’ve been so out of it; there are a bunch of blogs on that list that I haven’t even heard of!

  39. SWG September 8, 2008 at 3:48 pm -  Reply

    Let me just say that I hope to be able to make such a list someday and I am consistently writing to gain quanitity and always focus on quality. I hope any and all of you would check out my blog. Thank you! – Steamy Word Guy

  40. Catalina September 8, 2008 at 10:06 pm -  Reply

    It is nice to be included in this list of people — I’m flattered! Thanks, Rori and to everybody who participated.


  41. Jocasta September 8, 2008 at 10:17 pm -  Reply

    Add me!

  42. Bob September 9, 2008 at 1:19 am -  Reply

    Wow! I am truly honored to be in your top 100 blogs. Heck, I would have been happy with being in the top 1000.



  43. Joan Price September 10, 2008 at 7:55 pm -  Reply

    Thanks for compiling this list and for inviting those of us who are not on it (yet) to tell you about our blogs. Mine celebrates the joys and tackles the challenges of older-age sex. It’s not as graphic or in-your-face as many of the blogs here because I’m trying to draw in an audience that may not be used to talking out loud about sex. I hope you and your readers will check it out at

    Joan Price

    Author of Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty (Seal Press, 2006, )

    Join us — we’re talking about ageless sexuality at

  44. Sophiste September 11, 2008 at 12:58 am -  Reply

    This is a great list! I already read many of the blogs on your list, and I am grateful for this compilation because it has helped me discover blogs that otherwise I might not have seen!

    I don’t have a blog of my own to promote, but my girlfriend does. In fact, she just started. I’ve seen some of her offline nonfiction and fiction writing, and although I’m hardly an objective critic, I find it insightful, funny, and fabulous. I have no doubt that her blog, In Praise of Shame, will be of a similar quality. Check out her first post at:

  45. Vixen September 11, 2008 at 5:37 am -  Reply

    Wow! Thank you! :)

  46. Anastasia September 11, 2008 at 5:55 am -  Reply

    I’m a delayed munchkin, but thank you. Quite unexpected.

  47. Blazing Shark September 11, 2008 at 6:49 am -  Reply

    Thanks for this list.

    I’m using my blog as a place to compile my crazy sex stories, mixed with advice and personal opinions. It’s very sexy heavy but is kind of different from other sex blogs. I also use twitter in a similar way.

  48. whippinggirl September 11, 2008 at 8:47 pm -  Reply

    I think this is a wonderful idea – I got to you through Bitchy Jones and I’m looking forward to reading your blog and everyone’s on here. My address is if anyone fancies it x

  49. Rogue September 12, 2008 at 12:42 pm -  Reply

    Terrific idea, and thanks so much for directing me to some excellent blogs.
    Maybe next year, no? *wink*

  50. MistressMaeve September 13, 2008 at 1:08 pm -  Reply

    I am totally honored to be listed next to such amazing writers. Thanks so much for all the work you put into this; I have a lot of reading to do!


  51. bliss warrior September 14, 2008 at 12:32 am -  Reply

    Dearest Rori – Thank you so much for including me! I am honored and truly thrilled and just cannot thank you enough. I know all of the work that goes into compiling a list like this and I truly appreciate how much time it must have taken. So thank you once again and keep doing what you do. I am a huge fan. XOXOXOXO BLISS

  52. Max King September 15, 2008 at 5:10 am -  Reply

    How could you not include, Girl with a one track mind, A Taste of the Good Wife (even though she stopped writing), Linda Sue’s Diary, and if you find it through the archives, Tales of a Witty Sex Kitten?

  53. Rori September 15, 2008 at 5:29 am -  Reply

    Easy, Max. I didn’t include them because I didn’t know about them – no one nominated and I’ve never heard of these blogs. That was the point of getting others to nominate awesome bloggers. :)

  54. Anita Wagner September 15, 2008 at 3:07 pm -  Reply

    Hi Rori – Thank you ever so much for including me and my little blogging niche on the list – it’s flattering to be included with such excellent company. I’m definitely adding you to my blogroll right now. – Anita Wagner

  55. Scorpio September 15, 2008 at 3:56 pm -  Reply

    Hello Rori,

    I am honored beyond words to join this fantastic group of bloggers. Thank you for including me in your list.


  56. Ms. Justine September 18, 2008 at 9:42 pm -  Reply

    Wow. As though the stack of books next to my bed wasn’t high enough, now I have even more blogs to read! Honestly, I’m always excited by the intelligent, sexy writers I find on the internet. My blog is still pretty new, but I hope to be a part of the league I so admire:

  57. kiMMs September 22, 2008 at 10:05 pm -  Reply

    wow – what a delightful surprise this morning! thank you for landing me in such esteemed company!

  58. Rebelious Rica September 30, 2008 at 1:32 pm -  Reply

    Where’s my blogsite? :P Seriously, thanks for sharing the list. Though I am not a seasoned writer, I am an avid reader of these types of blogs. Not only does it help me sizzle my sex life but also, stimulate my inner self. Anyways, I would like to invite you to also check out — you might find this interesting and useful. Cheers!

  59. Jim October 12, 2008 at 8:55 pm -  Reply

    Thanks for the hard work putting this together. I am now trying to read other people’s sex blogs.

  60. Adriana October 22, 2008 at 4:22 am -  Reply

    What an awesome list!

  61. Nancy January 9, 2009 at 8:07 pm -  Reply

    Just adding a newbie to the list. I’ll never make the top 100, or even the top 200, but here’s my new blog, please comment – good or bad – with your suggestions or whatever.

  62. Laura Roberts April 9, 2009 at 2:48 pm -  Reply

    Great list! I will definitely have to go through and take a look at all the sites I don’t recognize. And, while I’m at it, I’ll leave a link for my site, Black Heart Magazine. We focus on sex, love and literature; kind of like Nerve, but more philosophical. ;)

  63. Wallace April 22, 2009 at 10:01 pm -  Reply

    Just what I have been looking for a great list of sex blogs, that will inspire me to even greater and naughtier levels….

    The Internet Swordsman

  64. Wallace April 22, 2009 at 10:14 pm -  Reply

    Next year I will make sure I’m in the top 20 at least, watch me rise and get bigger and bigger…….!

    The Internet Swordsman

  65. Celibate Woman April 24, 2009 at 6:14 am -  Reply

    Oh fun! Looks like I’ve got some reading to do! Nice list.

  66. HornyBook May 16, 2009 at 1:52 pm -  Reply

    Wow..very nice list though I think some are not in order..Anyway this is very useful post!

  67. Samantha July 31, 2009 at 5:48 am -  Reply

    Aah, exactly what I was hoping for. Great list of sexy bloggers.

  68. bdenied August 18, 2009 at 10:59 am -  Reply

    Well if I did not make the list at least I can promote myself

  69. sandrar September 10, 2009 at 2:57 pm -  Reply

    Hi! I was surfing and found your blog post… nice! I love your blog. :) Cheers! Sandra. R.

  70. Treacle October 4, 2009 at 9:31 am -  Reply

    What a great resource!

    If it’s all right to ask, how do blogs make their way to you to be considered for this list?

  71. Fantasia Lillith December 6, 2009 at 3:37 pm -  Reply

    I think this list will provide me with an endless source of inspiration!! good job … how on earth did you choose? what is your criteria?

  72. John Yossarian March 12, 2010 at 8:17 am -  Reply

    One day i hope to join this illustrious list. I guess i can only dream for now.

    Great list, thanks you!

  73. Erin Andrews April 7, 2010 at 1:24 am -  Reply

    Keep the good information comming, we need more authors like you!

  74. kim December 12, 2010 at 1:38 pm -  Reply

    Great list! This is really a great post, you do great work on this blog, I just want it to lead to some really great seks and I hope that the seks is the best ever!

  75. Samya July 18, 2013 at 6:32 am -  Reply

    Whoa, thanks a lot for this amazing resource list! I’ll click through all the blogs once at a while.
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