Rori's Story



Have you ever found yourself trucking along in life, and then suddenly feeling very overwhelmed with the sheer amount of things you are doing?

One of the reasons I feel so right in a submissive role is that I have a tendency to overwhelm myself in everyday life. I take on lots of projects and don’t make time for those lazy moments. I have a hard time watching an entire hour-long TV show or relaxing with some wine and reading a book or soaking in the bubble bath alone with my thoughts.

Don’t get me wrong, Iwantto do those things. But when I make time for them, I can’t enjoy them. I just think about all the productive things Icould be doing. Then I start feeling guilty. I could be doing more work or writing a new blog post or cleaning the house or…

Be submissive gives me a release from that. For an hour or so I can let go of all the things I should be doing and just enjoy being dominated. And I don’t feel guilty because I’m doing what my daddy tells me. I’m making him happy. So it’s okay.

Weird as it sounds, scenes are kind of…me time. With Cash. I know that sounds strange, but I get to relax and just not think about life.

Because life has a way of snowballing for me. I keep taking on projects and then suddenly I have so much on my plate that I’m overwhelmed beyond belief and trying furiously just to hold things together.

Any other subs out there feel like being dominated is kind of like “me” time? Or is that just me?

About Rori

Rori is the founder of Between My Sheets. She works full time as a writer, reviewer, and online educator and can be reached at


  1. Conina December 9, 2012 at 1:43 am -  Reply

    Totally not just you. :) The best way to take a load off because you’re still DOING something… but the something isn’t something you have to think about. You just do it. SO much easier than planning and organizing and handling and…argh. Life, amirite?
    Conina recently posted..Amusing D/s conundrumMy Profile

  2. Aundrea December 9, 2012 at 11:42 pm -  Reply

    Totally not just you. If left to my own devices I’m a very perfectionist oriented person. I’m literally always tense to the point that you could like bounce things off my skin cause my shoulders don’t relax etc. Having someone remove that all, just not give me an option and taking it all away for a bit. Just following what I’m told, no leading, thinking etc. In many ways its the best most loving thing you can do for me because otherwise I’m liable to just drive myself crazier.

    So I sympathize and understand completely. Glad you found someone to do that for you.

  3. Cammies on the floor December 10, 2012 at 10:26 am -  Reply

    I’m with you on that as well. I am in charge and on the go every minute of the day. There are no lazy days for me. I would like to have my lover be more assertive, so at least in that arena I don’t have to make the decisions, be in control. He is getting better.
    I think that’s why I like sexual activities so much. When I am touched, I am focused on feeling what it is doing to me, not thinking I need to get up and do something else. At least in orgasm, I am incapable of thought.
    Cammies on the floor recently posted..ABCMy Profile

  4. Vlada December 13, 2012 at 4:28 am -  Reply

    Same thing with me, i can never relax, or enjoy something because i am always thinking about the work that is next to be done.

Leave a reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

CommentLuv badge

Popular Posts:




Recent Sexy Comments: