Okay, I have to admit that I feel a little like Cosmopolitan writing this post. Seriously, is it just me, or so they have “The Top 100 Sex Tip” in every single issue, just repackaged with a different skin. 100 Ways to Make Him Moan. 100 Things that Will Blow His Mind in Bed. 100 Things He Really Wants You to Do in Bed. It’s usually the same old stuff every time, though. Or at least, it used to be I haven’t picked up an issue of Cosmo in years.
But nevertheless, I wanted to post my list of blow job secrets, just little things that I throw into every bj to make it special. Of course, I don’t do every tip every time – I like to spice things up – but these things always seem to get a good reaction!
Oh, and please leave at least one tip at the end: if you do the sucking, what have you done to drive him wild? If you’re the suck-ee, what’s something a girl (or guy) has done that made you totally want to lose it?
1. Put a little bit of soda in your mouth as just before you start to suck. Sprite or something else that is super carbonated works the best. Feel all that bubble-bursting on your tongue? Yeah, that’s what he feels on his cock.
2. Suck on an ice chip as you blow him. The combination of hot and cold is really awesome. Just make sure to move around the ice a lot in your mouth, following it with your tongue. If you hold it against a single spot, it can start to have a numbing effect (not good).
3. This one involves a little searching, but if you can find them, buy some pop rocks to suck on as you’re also sucking on him. Like the soda, it’s a cool popping sensation on his cock.
4. Take the the tip in your mouth and use your tongue to flick the spot right where the head meets the shaft. For some reason, I’ve found on most guys that this is a super sensitive spot that feels awesome when it gets a little extra attention.
5. Can’t deep throat? The next best thing: lick all around his shaft, making him super wet, then take in as much as you can and wrap your hand around the rest, squeezing tightly as you suck.
6. Tease him. Just before taking his cock in your mouth, like the tip and blow on it gently. Try doing that on your own finger right now – see, it creates a cooling sensation.
7. Be super enthusiastic. Note: I’ve been told time and time and time again that this is BY FAR the best thing a girl can do when it comes to giving a blow job.
8. Hold a small vibrator at the base, just above his balls, as you suck. (For some guys this is way too intense – depends on his preferences – but for others it is mind-blowingly awesome.)
9. Be super vocal. This goes along with #7, being enthusiastic. Moan, gasp, and beg for his cock down your throat. The more fun you’re having, the more fun he’ll have, and as an added bonus, if you moan while he’s in your mouth, the vibrations will feel great.
10. Give his balls some lovin’. Again, for some guys this is way too intense, but I’ve found that most love it – and I’ve been told often that a lot of girls don’t give balls any attention at all during a blow job, other than a little fondling. If he’s not too sensitive, play with his balls with your tongue. I like to pop them in and out of my mouth really quickly, sucking on the firmly (but gently, don’t get too rough!).
Ok – your turn. Give us your best blow job technique or the best thing someone’s ever used on you!
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Ball play is awesome. My wife will use deep stroke of her tongue in a way that will get me off faster and harded than almost anything else blow job related.
The best though is when my wife and another woman are making out over the tip of my cock. From the awesome visual to the sensation of two tongues going around the head, there is nothing that creates quite the sensory overload.
Yum, that would be fun, to make out over the tip of a cock.
it is absurd
You gave the best tip of them all- be super enthusiastic. If you don’t like giving oral stimulation you are not going to be good at it.
Trust me, men and women always know rather or not you like doing it. I like to place my guy hand on the back of my head. This helps him relax more and really enjoy it.
I like that tip, putting his hands on the back of your head. Not every guy I’m with knows that I’m a sub, so are too shy for that unless you make it clear that you like it.
I don’t like to stop abruptly just because he came, so I continue gently licking and sucking for a few minutes after – kind of a cooling down period. lol
Ooo, that’s a good one. Though I have had some guys who couldn’t take it (V, for example, was SUPER sensitive after cumming). Most guys like that, though!
Dr. Mcgillicuddy’s menthol mint schnaps or altoids are good to use too!
I’ll have to try that one!! I bet those breath strips work too.
My husband says it’s all in the eyes.
The way I look up at him while I am doing it.
I also don’t like to stop abruptly. Makes for a bad ending. If a guy is super sensitive I just play around the edges a bit.
Oh man. That’s good one that I forgot, looking up at him. I’ve always had a good reaction to that too!!
I’ve actually got a couple of things that seem to blow my boyfriends mind.
I love to let his hands wonder where ever he’d like them to go, he enjoys it because (in his experience) no other girl enjoys it.
He discovered that has an accident one day when I was doing something he really liked that when he’s touching my head or pulling my hair or holding my head/guiding me that I love it and he find it a turn on when I love it win/win.
The other thing I’m not sure if I can explain too well but when he’s soft (this for me is impossible when he’s hard) I suck just the head or a little of the shaft into my mouth rapidly. It often ends up with him hard in no time
It has already been mentioned but EYES….if you lock your eyes on his as he watched his cock in your mouth then trust me, you will hear THAT GROAN of pure lusty pleasure as he struggles to decided whether to watch your lips or eyes.
Also, use your hands (although Sir does seem to really like taking my mouth with my hands tied behind my back) if you have your hands free, USE THEM. On his thighs, on his arse, reach up to his chest as well….let them roam and wander and a wet finger rubbing that bit of skin between his balls and arse is always a winner….but watch out, be ready for a mouth full…LOL
Mollyxxx
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“4. Take the the tip in your mouth and use your tongue to flick the spot right where the head meets the shaft. For some reason, I’ve found on most guys that this is a super sensitive spot that feels awesome when it gets a little extra attention.”
The spot in question is called the frenulum, and is very sensitive (in a good way) in all guys, not just most. Should any rare case happen where this is not true, you should urge him to (you’ll excuse the expression) get his head examined.
After my hubby comes, I try to follow his breathing and jerking movements with in and almost out movements, then he tells me when to slow down, that’s my cue to lick the frenulum. He loves it.
As for the balls, he loves it when I bite the part of the sack slightly above the balls and stretch it (with my teeth) a little (not too much!).
I find that eye contact is practically impossible for me since his cock doesn’t bend far enough. Any tips?
If you can’t look up at him while you’re sucking, try looking up as you lick up his shaft or as you jerk it for a few seconds to catch your breath.
I need someone in bed with me to suck on first.
Haha, I know, right? That’s the hardest part of using these techniques – finding a partner who deserves it!
For those who can’t deepthroat use an eye dropper and squirt alittle ambasol down your throat it numbs your throat and takes away the gag reflex so you can take the whole shaft in your mouth. Works fery well. And for those of you women who don’t like cum in your mouth. Just before I cum just stick my shaft as far down your throat as you can and by pass your tastebuds as I cum.
I’ve never tried ambasol so I can’t speak to that, but I 100% agree with your tip about by-passing the taste buds!
Serious question-does it not go into your lungs/windpipe when you go all the way down and he comes?
No more than a drink does when you sip it through a straw. Of course it can happen, but that’s usually not the case. At least, not for me.
Hey my boyfriend for two years now fiancie has a 12inch cock lol ik I’m lucky and I love to suck him and swallow his cum but I don’t think I’m doing it well enough cause it takes for ever to make him cum and idk if I can deepthrout that big of a dick some one please help?
Just keep practicing! Trust me, I’m sure he won’t mind hehe. Deepthroating just requires you to practice and get used to it.
My boyfriend loves it when I lick around his foreskin. Before I even considered giving it more attention, I didn’t even know if many men enjoyed it.
lol i like tea:) one day i decided to goof off n made some hot mint tea and a bottle of ice water, placed them on the shelf behind me ( he was snoozing) i crawled into bed between his legs n started massaging his thighs(he stopped snoozing). i did the usual lick tip, shaft, stroked and started doing a normal bj. when it was wet i hand-jobbed it a little so i could sneak the tea
deff added an interesting twist. i repeated that sequence. then and hand-jobbed and switched to the ice water. what an awesome reaction he had! so much fun. totally finished him off after that last random switch:) so basically be pleasurably unexpected! it’s fun^^