I’ve been doing a lot of soul searching here over the last several months, so I thought it was a good idea to post something sexy today. After all, this is a sex blog, right? Following this review you can read all about how I used it. *naughty grin*
I always read about people using Venus Butterflies, and some of them swear by them while others hate them with a passion. When Adult Pleasure Zone offered me the chance to review one of my own, I jumped at the chance to finally join the love camp or hate camp. I had high hopes, maybe because I haven’t reviewed any sex toys for awhile and was hoping for a fun new addition to my toy chest.
And I wasn’t disappointed.
The Venus Butterfly that I received (apparently there are different models – my packaging just said “Venus Butterfly”) is pictured above. As you can see, it is meant to fit around your pussy and slip into you slightly. There are three straps – one to go around your waist and two for your legs, and a relatively long wire connects to a remote control. The body of the butterfly is shaped in a way that’s meant to stimulate your clit and backdoor at the same time.
Let’s first get some “cons” out of the way. When I opened the package, I immediate noticed that it smelled really bad. Not like, I sniffed it and it was off-putting. Like, I could smell the jelly material without even getting my nose close to it. Jelly vibes are not my favorite thing in the world. They always smell bad and are hard to clean properly, since they pick up every little fuzz ball and hair in the air.
I understood immediately why this vibe doesn’t work for some women. It was made with someone tiny in mind. I’m not a tiny girl, and as far as pussies go, I would say that I’m fairly average in terms of size, length, etc. It wasn’t really optimized for someone like me, and if you have fully lips or a longer pussy, it definitely isn’t optimized for you. No matter how I situated myself, there’s no way it was going to stimulate all three zones at the same time.
With that said, I don’t have many other complaints. Just because it didn’t fit perfectly doesn’t mean that it didn’t turn me on. The vibrations were more powerful than I expected, and in a larger scale than I expected, ranging from “barely feel it” to pretty powerful. I was also impressed at how quiet it was. On the higher settings, you can definitely here it humming, but I don’t think you’d be able to hear it through the walls, so if you have roommates, you don’t have to worry about that. And, if you’re using it somewhere more public, you can slide it to a lower setting and nobody would hear it at all.
Something that worried me when I heard I was getting this product to review – the fact that it had straps so you could use it hands-free. To put things in perspective for you, I typically wear an XL, and stores that only carry S/M/L usually don’t have any clothes for me. A lot of costume-y sex clothing isn’t made for anyone larger than a M-L, so it worried me. I was happily surprised to find that not only were the straps large enough, but that they also were adjustable and very elastic. Even if you fall into the “very large BBW” category, I’m pretty sure this would fit you. The straps are really comfortable, too. It held the butterfly in place very well.
This would be a GREAT toy to use in a D/s relationship, because a sub could be made to wear it all of the time. You could wear it to work, out to dinner…virtually anywhere. The control could be stuck discreetly into your pocket or waistband if necessary, or taken out to play. Imagine trying to order a meal while your dom is pulsing the vibrations under the table. Yum.
If I had one other criticism about this toy, it would be that the penis part should be a little larger. I get really, really wet, especially when I’m close to orgasming, and it slipped out a few times as I changed position. I was left craving for something a bit thicker or perhaps more rigid in me. But then, I haven’t had sex in a long time, so I’m not sure any toy would satisfy me right now.
Overall, this toy isn’t for everyone, but it did work really well for me. It depends on the shape of your pussy and your vibration needs. For the price, I enjoyed it.
Oh, I enjoyed it all right.
If you’re reading this on my homepage, click below to ready a more…personal review of the Venus Butterfly.
Sometimes, when I masturbate, I don’t really focus on anything in particular. I just enjoy the sensations or think about general fantasies that don’t involve anyone specific.
But sometimes…oh, sometimes… I have very detailed fantasies involving very specific men in my life.
My hands bound with loops of rope above my head, I could see The Student and V both standing over me, slowly stroking their hard cocks. The Student might not be a full-time dom, but he’s usually very in control in the bedroom. V is definitely a dom, as you probably know.
But that night? They weren’t in charge. That night, the man tying opening my legs, stopping only to occasionally nibble my inner thighs…that was the man in charge.
He spoke in a firm, quiet tone, telling The Student and V to enjoy themselves, but not touch me. I was his. My legs securely in place, he gently touched the tip of his finger to my clit, making me moan in anticipation. My mouth watered, watching The Student and V stroking themselves so close to my face, but when I caught his gaze, looking up at me from between my legs, they melted away. His tongue ever so slightly flicked my clit and my back arched in response. I tried to stay composed, tried not to let out a moan, tried to hold still and not let my movements betray me.
But I saw the laughter in his eyes as they connected with mine at the same time that his lips enveloped my clit, covering me with kisses. My legs pulled against the rope as his teeth grazed against me, and his finger stroked along my pussy, not entering me yet, but making me strain to grind against him.
“Not yet,” he growled, pulling my pussy onto his face, lapping up the wetness that I couldn’t control. V groaned, watching us, and I suddenly realized that the other boys were still there, watching me in agony, trying to hold back. I raised my head toward him, wanting so badly to have a cock in my mouth. Inches from my face, the man between my legs slapped my pussy. Hard.
“Don’t. You. Dare. That’s my mouth to use.”
“Then why don’t you use it,” I cheekily replied, with a smirk.
He plunged two fingers into me, suddenly and deeply. “I’ll use you how I want to use you, bitch.”
His fingers moved inside of me, finding my g-spot with expertise and making me gasp. His tongue attacked my clit as his fingers thrust into me, and I no longer had any hopes of controlling my moans. The Student and V both were breathing heavily and stroking their cocks hard and fast, watching me approach orgasm, which in turn took me even closer to the edge. The only person in the room who was composed was him. His tongue slowly and rhythmically circled my clit, and he watched my face intently, watching me enjoy every movement. My juices ran all over his face and fingers, and he drank them in.
And suddenly, I couldn’t hold back anymore. Crying out his name, I came, hard, all over his tongue. I heard V follow suit, and The Student came too, watching my pussy spasm. At some point, they both left the the room, leaving me with just him. He untied my legs, his hand covering my pussy, which was still throbbing. My hands were still tied, but he pulled me to him, and I could feel his heart beating nearly as fast as my own. We breathed in tandem for a few moments as he stroked my hair, before he strapped the butterfly around me and turned on low.
I moaned and found his cock with my lips. His breath quickened and his fingers entwined in my hair. I gazed my lips across his head, covering them with precum, the salty taste so very delicious on my tongue. The butterfly buzzed against me, almost hurting because I was so sensitive, and I moaned against his cock.
“Mmmm, that feels so good,” he mummered, pushing more deeply down my throat.
I sucked gently, enjoying the fleshy feeling of him in my mouth. I began to bob and down on his cock, and he leaned back, watching me, enjoying every moment. He pushed up the speed on the butterfly as he thrust deeply into my throat, my groans sending vibrations along the full length of his shaft. I suppressed the urge to gag as I rubbed the head of his cock against the back of my throat, sucking hard.
And then, suddenly, he was fucking my face. Using me. Needing me. Unable to stop. His breathing was ragged and he pushed my vibrator up fully. I tried to cry out again, but his cock filled my mouth as he thrust into me.
“You’re my little slut,” he gasped, not really to me, just into the night. His back arched and I felt his cum shoot against the back of my throat as I came again to the buzzing against my clit. He filled my mouth. Delicious. And tonight, for me.
I held him in my mouth as his thrusting slowed and he breathing returned to normal, allowing him to pull out when he was ready. He did, and pulled me to his chest again, his kisses still tasting like my pussy and mine certainly still tasting like him.
And in real life, I breathed deeply and slowed, unstrapping the butterfly and pulling it out of me, as I imagined he would. Hey, people might control whether or not they want to be in my life…but I get to masturbate to whomever I want. And right now, regardless of anything that happened, thinking of him still makes me hot. That’s not a bad thing. Yum.
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Thank you for all the sex toys reviews you have been doing! They’re so helpful!
Another fantastic sex toy review.