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One of Those Days – $50 GIVEAWAY


So last week I missed Masturbation Monday because I took a brand new job and was so overwhelmed with work that I didn’t have time to breathe. And I promised you an awesome MasMon this week to make up for it. And here we are on Tuesday, no new post. What the fuck, Rori? I know, right? So I have a giveaway to bribe you all not to hate me. WOO MONEY.

First, let me tell you about my day.

Today was the day from hell. Thank god I have a supportive boyfriend. Co-worker rant and meltdown, totaled car (luckily not mine and no one was hurt, but I had to drive people around because of it), crazy beyond crazy landlord in my house for FIVE HOURS with her three-year-old grandson who was not being properly supervised and thus getting into everything, major work problem with a project I’m doing…and all of that on three hours of sleep. From some who is definitely a 8-a-night girl.

It was just one of those days. No one hurt. No significant harm done, even with work problems. Just not a moment to breathe. I ate a Lean Pocket for lunch and some chips for dinner. I’m exhausted. And I have a deadline.

So yes, I suck, and I totally failed on delivering on my MasMon promise.

But I’m going to give away a $50 Gift Card to EdenFantasys to a random reader!

To enter, simply leave a comment telling me one thing: what’s your cure when you have a bad day? What makes you feel better, even if you’re not near a loved one for a hug or anything else? Is it listening to a specific song? Is it eating a specific food? Is it something else that makes your smile? Just tell me your bad day cure in the comments below and you’re entered to win. If you’re feeling really ambitious, tell me about a recent bad day and how you got over the funk.

I’ll randomly draw a winner on Monday, May 7, 2012 – so hurry, you only have a week to enter!

(Small print: Winner chosen by on 5/7/12 at 10 PM EST. Your comment must include a valid email address. One entry per person. Your entry must contain the bad day cure info to count – other comments on this post will not be counted. Winner must be 18+ years old (21+ in some areas). Odds of winning depend on the number of entries received. Void where prohibited.)

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Rori is the founder of Between My Sheets. She works full time as a writer, reviewer, and online educator and can be reached at


  1. Chrissie May 1, 2012 at 8:16 am -  Reply

    My cure for a bad day is to submit further to the will of my Mistress. When she is pleased, or when she tells me I have been a good girl, no day can remain bad.

    Early in our relationship we agreed that there would be no circumstance under which the word “No” would be uttered by me in response to her instructions or desires, many of which have involved her desire to further feminize me, others of which involve her beautifully overwhelming passion – when she wants it, she wants it, and simply takes me, wherever and whenever.

    If things are bad at work, or if there is anything that is getting me down all I have to do is think of the list of things she has “suggested” or told me she would like to see me do. I pick one or two of these and respectfully ask how I could make it happen. And when she tells me, I do it.

    The smile – and often more – that follows is enough to transform any day into one of utter delight.

  2. Cory Williams May 1, 2012 at 8:28 am -  Reply

    My cure for a bad day:

    Hug from my kids, kiss from my wife, and a healthy dose of Guns N Roses Appetite for Destruction on my CD player.

  3. Y May 1, 2012 at 12:21 pm -  Reply

    My cure: Working out with some spectacularly loud electronic music in the background. I’m very rarely feeling down, but on those rare occasions that’s a pretty surefire fix.

  4. Matthew May 1, 2012 at 3:58 pm -  Reply

    My solution is to turn on some Jimmy Buffett music and if possible go to the Driving Range.

    My other solution (since I’m single) is to just boot up some video games and let myself go. Video games or reading books are great ways to distract me and for me to let go of my surroundings. I’ve had friends, roommates and family all tell me that when I’m deep in a book or playing a game I’m almost unreachable if I’m focused on it. But the driving range of a golf course is still the only place lately where I’ve truly felt at peace.

  5. Sock it 2me May 1, 2012 at 8:40 pm -  Reply

    This cure is based on it being a bad day at work:
    -Come home and grab a big hug from the wife and squeeze her sweet ass.
    -Then a nice dinner with the family, always a homemade dinner and the kids (all 20+) are always entertaining as is my wife.
    – then a nice evening with wife’s feet being rubbed by my as we decompress with some TV and fine 12 yo rum.
    – and if the wife is in the mood all the pleasure she can handle once we head up to bed.
    I can’t help it, I’m a sucker for family life, as much as I’d love to be a swinger, it’s the wife and kids life for me!

  6. Marshall Sutton May 2, 2012 at 1:30 am -  Reply

    My cure is spending time with my wife. After a day of handling my more-than-a-handful two-year-old, her touch is about all I need.

  7. Lisa May 2, 2012 at 4:03 am -  Reply

    Nice that your friend is so supportive. Awesome post.
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  8. Kate Ex May 2, 2012 at 4:31 am -  Reply

    I have so many remedies… cooking, reading, watching bad Lifetime movies, listening to ELO, cat macros… especially cat macros :)

  9. AHubbyof2SexualMinds May 2, 2012 at 8:45 am -  Reply

    I have two things that really help when I have a bad day. I have recently gotten into meditation and have been trying that when I have a bad day which really has seemed to help.

    And before I discovered meditation I would go to the movies. Getting lost in a movie in the theater always seemed to make the bad day go away for me.
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  10. Shelby May 2, 2012 at 9:02 am -  Reply

    My cure for a bad day?
    Baking a batch of cookies and catching up on my Hulu shows.
    Or, if it’s been a really bad day, I have my own dance party and dance it off.

  11. Erin B May 2, 2012 at 12:35 pm -  Reply

    What helps me when I have a bad day, and when snuggling with my significant other isnt an option, I listen to a few songs that remind me of being with her.
    Firelight – Wrapped In Your Arms
    Imogen Heap – The Walk
    Christina Perri – Mine
    All of these are awesome to just listen to and reflect, but the best part (for me that is) is singing with it. I find that always helps just a bit more then listening only.

  12. nilla May 2, 2012 at 1:43 pm -  Reply

    Well, hands down the best cure for a bad day is a good masturbation!!

    Course, I need permission first from da Man…which involves a fair amount of back n forth texting.

    But if my day has been truly horrid (like last week when I found out that my job was being eliminated, leaving me workless …eep!)…Master kindly gave me an orgasm without too much fuss.

    Of course…the fuss is part of it, too, for me anyway. Having to ask. Having to bite my nails when He decides yes or no. Or coming up with a good argument when He asks “why should I agree to this?”

    Sorry your day was sucky. I very much relate.


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  13. Plummy May 2, 2012 at 11:35 pm -  Reply

    First of all, I discovered your blog a few weeks ago and have been making my way through the back entries–I enjoy it quite a bit! :) Whenever I’m having a terrible day, I grab my backpack and go on a hike. If I find a nice place, I’ll sit and sketch for a bit. It’s really being outdoors, by myself, that does the trick for me and brings me out of the ‘bad day’ mindset.

  14. Kay May 3, 2012 at 6:14 am -  Reply

    Those Samoa cookies from the girl scouts, snuggles with my dog, a strong strong bear hug from the hubbs, a passion f*ck, and to sip Johnny Walker blue label after it all. Preferably in that order!

  15. Paul May 5, 2012 at 6:58 pm -  Reply

    Mine might be a bit weird, but: showering in the dark.

    No idea why, but with the bathroom fully closed off and lights out, having a shower (has to be SUPER-hot… almost scalding) in pitch-darkness is kind of a weird sensory-deprivation-chamber kind of thing which I find unbelievably refreshing.

    • Plummy May 9, 2012 at 6:17 pm -  Reply

      Paul, I do that too! Whenever I’m feeling physically bad (sick, headache, etc) or depressed in a way that is hard to shake, I love showering in the dark. Cool to find out it’s not just me. :)

  16. Katie May 5, 2012 at 8:06 pm -  Reply

    After a really awful day, I go home, turn the music up as loud as I think I can get away with, and curl up into a ball on the couch.

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