Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2008
UPDATE: I’m now accepting nominations for the 2009 List! Please go to this post today to nominate your favorite bloggers!
Back in July, I was named to a “Top Female Bloggers” list. It was an extreme honor, but it got me to thinking. In the sex/gender/erotic blogging community, there are a lot of people who work really hard on their blogs for not a lot of recognition. We are tech bloggers or celebrity bloggers. Not that there’s anything wrong with writing about that kind of stuff…
But every day, as I read your blogs, I’m humbled. Everyone in this community has so much to share, so much to teach. We’re not writing about Paris’ latest wardrobe malfunction. We’re writing personal stories about our lives and opinions about sexuality. This is about sharing our hearts. Everyone is so deliciously different, too. I love it!
So, I decided to create a list of the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2008. Yes, I hope to make this an annual thing! “Sex Blogger” is a term I’m using loosely to mean anyone who blogs about gender, sex in society, erotic fiction, pornography, BDSM lifestyle choices…or anything else relating to sex and sexuality. (UPDATE: Read this if you aren’t on the list!)
Without further ado, here’s the list. You guys created it, I’m just posting it. I hope you’ll also check out the 2008 Sex Bloggers page to find out more about all of them.
1. Sinclair Sexsmith http://sugarbutch.net
2. Radical Vixen http://www.radicalvixen.com
3. Curvaceous Dee http://curvaceousdee.blogspot.com
4. Always Aroused Girl http://aagblog.com
5. Ellie Lumpesse www.lumpesse.com
6. Catalina http://catalinaloves.com
7. Selena Kitt http://selenakittyn.com
8-9. Wifey and Hubby http://wifeytalk.com
10. Roger http://dirtyboy2.blogspot.com
11. Essin’ Em http://essin-em.com
12. Amber Rhea http://www.beingamberrhea.com
13-14. Richard and Amy http://247richardandamy.com
15-16. MJ and MJ’s Slave http://www.aslavestruenature.blogspot.com
17. Thursday’s Child http://thursdayschildhasfartogo.blogspot.com
18. Narration by D http://narrationbyd.blogspot.com
19. Andrea Zanin http://www.sexgeek.wordpress.com
20. The Provocateur http://theprovocateur.wordpress.com
21. Violet Blue http://tinynibbles.com
22. Autumn http://dreamsofaneroticaqueen.sensualwriter.com
23. SSS http://sweatshopsissy.wordpress.com
24. Storm http://ambientstorm.blogspot.com
25. Sub lyn http://longdistancesub.blogspot.com
26. Tara Tainton http://www.taratainton.com/tarastrysts/index.html
27. Jake http://factsandfriction.blogspot.com
28. Cherry Bomb http://cherrybombnyc.blogspot.com
29. Lakey http://fairelaffaire.blogspot.com
30. Scarlet http://feministfucktoy.com
31. Glenpreece http://lastbreath.wordpress.com
32. Lolita Wolf http://www.leatheryenta.com
33. Vixen http://blue-eyedvixen.com
34. Tom Paine http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com
35. Tongue Tied Blue http://tonguetiedblue.blogspot.com
36. Maymay http://www.maybemaimed.com
37. Miss Bliss http://blog.blisswarrior.com
38. Mistress Maeve http://7d.blogs.com/mistress
39. Nadia http://www.kinkylibrarian.net
40. Luka http://barbedwireboudoir.blogspot.com
41-42. Odysseus and Penelope http://marriedexploits.blogspot.com
43. Eileen http://bloodylaughter.com
44. Calico http://dominatrixnextdoor.com/blog
45. Caroline Shepherd http://feministsexcarnival.blogspot.com
46. Kathleen http://polyspace.wordpress.com
47. Packing Vocals http://packingvocals.blogspot.com
48. Audacia Ray http://www.wakingvixen.com
49. Axe http://unspeakableaxe.com
50. Baccus http://www.erosblog.com
51. Chelsea Summers http://prettydumbthings.typepad.com/chelseagirl
52. Debauchette http://debauchette.wordpress.com
53. The Butterfly Temptress http://thebutterflytemptress.com
54. Dirty Little Girl http://dirtylittlemind.blogspot.com
55. Sexy Whispers http://sexywhispers.wordpress.com
56. Wendy Blackheart http://www.heartfullofblack.com
57-58. Padme and Anakin http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com
59-60. Him and Her http://sexcakes.blogspot.com
61. Slip of a Girl http://aslipofagirl.blogspot.com
62. Blowjob Babe http://strokesuckswallow.blogspot.com
63-64. Dirty Debbie and CJ http://dirtydebbie.blogspot.com
65. Scorpio http://adventuresofascorpio.blogspot.com
66. Charlotte http://charlottethorpe73.wordpress.com
67. Bitchy Jones http://bitchyjones.wordpress.com
68. Anastasisa http://www.chaosnoir.com/anastasia
69. Alice http://anonymous-alice.blogspot.com
70. Anita Wagner http://practicalpolyamory.blogspot.com
71. Jack http://writingdirty.com
72. Mistress Matisse http://mistressmatisse.blogspot.com
73. Mariella http://wannaplaymariella.blogspot.com
74. O http://eros-logos.blogspot.com
75. Shasta Gibson http://shastagibson.com
76. Gwen http://www.pop-shot.blogspot.com
77. fivestar http://www.iamfivestar.com
78. Lilly http://dangerouslilly.com
79. Penny http://birdsaresmart.blogspot.com
80. Figleaf http://www.realadultsex.com
81. Tony http://www.comstockfilms.com/blog/tony
82. Viviane http://www.thesexcarnival.com
83. Six http://sixelaborates.wordpress.com
84. Bob http://bobsbestboobs.com
85-99. Fiammetta, Jill, Robyn, Scarlot, Melissa, Kitten, Karly, Holly, Surgeon, Stacey, Tara, Jessica, Gina, Wendy, and Tori http://deepthroated.wordpress.com
100.
Why is #100 blank? Because I know there are dozens…hundreds…of other amazing sex bloggers out there, and I want everyone to be a part of this list. If you weren’t already include, please promote yourself and your blog with a comment below. You can also feel free to link to other people’s blogs in a comment. Anything goes! I hope you’ll copy/paste this list on your own blog, if you have one. You don’t have to link back here - just get the word out about these amazing bloggers. Or, create your own list! Again, I hope you this out the 2008 Sex Bloggers page, which goes into more detail about each amazing blogger above!
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Wow! I’m the humbled one! Thanks so much for including me and my blog… which I’m still looking forward to having the time to return all the old favorite entries to since redesigning my site.
Thank you so much; it’s a true honor to be listed by you.
xoxo!
September 5th, 2008 at 3:51 amTara
Wow, thanks for including me, Rori. But that’s not the cool part, it’s the other 99… 98 people on the list — so many I know and so many I might not have found otherwise. So thanks even more for that.
Take care,
figleaf
September 5th, 2008 at 6:24 amThanks for stopping by, Tara and figleaf. This is totally what I hoped would happen - not just showing gratitude to the people who make it a pleasure to blog, but also help connect readers/bloggers to other bloggers that are smoking hot, but not necessarily well known. It’s an ice breaker. I hope everyone introduces themselves to all the cool people on this list and beyond!
September 5th, 2008 at 6:34 amThanks Rori! I’ll make sure to link to this in a bit so we can all find blogs we might not already know about
x
September 5th, 2008 at 10:09 amThanks so much for the mention! So many wonderful writers on here–it’s a helluva list to be a part of! My site is actually under construction as of right now, while I straighten some things out and take steps in a few new directions, but I’ll be back to rights soon. In the mean time, I’m looking forward to poking around at these links I haven’t seen before, finding myself some new words to obsess over.
xxMariella
September 5th, 2008 at 11:41 amW/we are very much appreciative of all our visiters/readers to have made this list… Thank you. s/nik is bounceing off the ceiling this morning, wishing she could tell someone of this.
With Much Appreciation.
MJ
September 5th, 2008 at 12:31 pmWow, thanks for the honor.
There’s some really noted people up there, and little ol me. Cool.
September 5th, 2008 at 1:06 pmI think I might actually be lost for words here. Possibly because I’ve been tearing around the house shouting loud and happy things!
Seriously though, I am completely blown away! Thank you so very, very much.
I see a lot of familiar and well-read names here. And I see a lot of names that are new to me (three in the top 10, even). I can see I have some surfing and reading to do!
*hugs and squeals and thanks all her lovers and readers*
September 5th, 2008 at 1:26 pmDee
wow - what a delightful surprise this morning! thank you for landing me in such esteemed company!
September 5th, 2008 at 1:28 pmWhen I showed this list to ♀, she did the happy dance.
September 5th, 2008 at 1:34 pmIt was very inspirational!
Thanks.
sss
Ah, that’s awesome! Thank you for all this, it’s so cool and plus great way of finding blogs I didn’t know before!
September 5th, 2008 at 1:45 pmwow, I don’t even know what to say! holy smokes! thanks for compiling this list, there are so many blogs on here that I don’t read regularly and it’s lovely to see htem all in the same place. I’m excited to go through them and find more blogs to read.
and thanks very much, those who voted for me. I’m really surprised, & honored.
September 5th, 2008 at 1:58 pmThank you so much! What an honor to be among all these sexy men and women!!!
September 5th, 2008 at 2:04 pmI am so beyond flattered, more like fall to floor *thunk* surprised. hehe
Thank you so much!!!
*MUAH*
September 5th, 2008 at 2:20 pmThank you, I am chuffed to bits and totally surprised!
What a treat for a grumpy, cynical old ratbag such as myself.
I am grinning broadly and filled with delight (I’d like to be filled with wine, but that will have to wait until later).
September 5th, 2008 at 3:06 pmi join the others in expressing my surprise and gratitude for a spot on such a great list! Thank you! So many blogs, so little time…
September 5th, 2008 at 3:44 pmWow…that is quite an impressive list. I’m thrilled to see my name among such company, though honestly a little surprised, too.
Makes me want to keep writing more, which is of course (I imagine) very nice for all involved.
Thanks, Rori.
September 5th, 2008 at 4:19 pmI’m totally amazed to be included in this list. Thank you very much. I also very much look forward to visiting the other blogs listed here.
September 5th, 2008 at 4:50 pmThank you for compiling the list, and thank you to the readers who nominated my site.
September 5th, 2008 at 5:47 pmYou are amazing for putting this together, I can’t imagine how much work it must have been, holy wow! What a wonderful list! I’m surprised you didn’t take longer getting it out.
I’m also honored and excited that I made it on the list, and like many others I am looking forward to looking at all the other blogs that I don’t already know!
September 5th, 2008 at 6:48 pmGreat list! I wasnt on it, but thats ok…lol
September 5th, 2008 at 10:07 pmThank you everyone.
September 6th, 2008 at 12:40 amIt’s a true compliment! I hope everyone keeps enjoying!
awww thankyou! I made the top ten! I’m so delighted, never thought I’d do so well, especially in such good company. Thankyou, I’m delighted and thrilled - and will link to this post in the morning! Jumping up and down here excitedly!! xxx
September 6th, 2008 at 1:38 amI am so totally honored, Rori. I’ve been in an ugly funk just lately and this helps more than you can know.
And, just for the record, your threesome post with “Don’t move or I’ll stop!”? Is the hottest thing I have ever read. Thanks for your list and thank you for your writing, and for being you. I’d not have begun writing my blog were it not for yours.
September 6th, 2008 at 2:55 amWow, I’m honoured to be named in the company of such fine writers! Many thanks for running the contest and posting the results, and thanks to those who nominated and voted for me. I’m gonna go off and grin for a while now. It’s been many years since I was last happy to be 19!
September 6th, 2008 at 4:25 amI would say that I am speechless, but everyone knows better! I am so honored to be on your list and to be in the company of these amazing bloggers. Kisses and hugs to all… Thank you for making my YEAR! ~~Dee
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September 6th, 2008 at 6:09 amThanks, Rori. You’re very sweet to include me.
I’m curious: is this list arranged by something? Or is it simply a randomly-ordered list?
September 6th, 2008 at 9:07 amThanks for putting me on the list, I’m quite humbled. You did a great job with it all, don’t let anybody give you crap about it hon.
September 6th, 2008 at 1:26 pmThank you for putting Master Anakin and I on the list! It was a big surprise. Great job with the list. I recognized a lot of blogs that I read on it.
September 6th, 2008 at 4:09 pmHUGS
padme from Journey to the Darkside
http://www.zandervyne.com
Erotica…with a brain.
September 6th, 2008 at 4:45 pmThank you so much, Rori! I am honored to be on this list!
September 6th, 2008 at 7:14 pmWow, what a list! I am honored to be included. Thanks!
September 6th, 2008 at 7:23 pmWhat a great idea!
September 7th, 2008 at 1:28 amWow, I’m speechless, absolutely flabbergasted. I have only just celebrated my one year blogging anniversary last month, and now, to be in the company of such amazing bloggers?! It’s truly an amazing honor -thanks to everyone!
September 7th, 2008 at 3:11 amI would like to say thanks, though I don’t feel that my blog is any where near as good as those on the lists. I guess it goes to show that these days, a man can ride his wife’s coat tails to stardom! Thanks, I am honored. I didn’t know anyone really read too much of my blog!
September 7th, 2008 at 3:20 amOhh to make the this list, one can but dream
September 7th, 2008 at 12:54 pmThis list is full of amazing people, fabulous writers, interesting thinkers, and people I lust over. Thank you so much for compiling it!
-Essin’ Em
September 7th, 2008 at 7:32 pmTerrific list! Well-done. I’m not on it, so I’m doing just what you said to do. Ha. Check me out, guys and gals, if you haven’t already!
September 7th, 2008 at 9:03 pmWow! I feel like I’ve been so out of it; there are a bunch of blogs on that list that I haven’t even heard of!
September 8th, 2008 at 3:07 pmLet me just say that I hope to be able to make such a list someday and I am consistently writing to gain quanitity and always focus on quality. I hope any and all of you would check out my blog. Thank you! - Steamy Word Guy
September 8th, 2008 at 3:48 pmIt is nice to be included in this list of people — I’m flattered! Thanks, Rori and to everybody who participated.
Catalina
September 8th, 2008 at 10:06 pmAdd me!
September 8th, 2008 at 10:17 pmWow! I am truly honored to be in your top 100 blogs. Heck, I would have been happy with being in the top 1000.
Cheers!
Bob
September 9th, 2008 at 1:19 amThanks for compiling this list and for inviting those of us who are not on it (yet) to tell you about our blogs. Mine celebrates the joys and tackles the challenges of older-age sex. It’s not as graphic or in-your-face as many of the blogs here because I’m trying to draw in an audience that may not be used to talking out loud about sex. I hope you and your readers will check it out at http://www.betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com.
Joan Price
Author of Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty (Seal Press, 2006, http://www.joanprice.com/BetterThanExpected.htm )
Join us — we’re talking about ageless sexuality at http://www.betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com
September 10th, 2008 at 7:55 pmThis is a great list! I already read many of the blogs on your list, and I am grateful for this compilation because it has helped me discover blogs that otherwise I might not have seen!
I don’t have a blog of my own to promote, but my girlfriend does. In fact, she just started. I’ve seen some of her offline nonfiction and fiction writing, and although I’m hardly an objective critic, I find it insightful, funny, and fabulous. I have no doubt that her blog, In Praise of Shame, will be of a similar quality. Check out her first post at: http://inpraiseofshame.wordpress.com/
September 11th, 2008 at 12:58 amWow! Thank you!
September 11th, 2008 at 5:37 amI’m a delayed munchkin, but thank you. Quite unexpected.
September 11th, 2008 at 5:55 amThanks for this list.
I’m using my blog as a place to compile my crazy sex stories, mixed with advice and personal opinions. It’s very sexy heavy but is kind of different from other sex blogs. I also use twitter in a similar way.
http://blazingshark.wordpress.com/
September 11th, 2008 at 6:49 amhttp://twitter.com/BlazingShark
I think this is a wonderful idea - I got to you through Bitchy Jones and I’m looking forward to reading your blog and everyone’s on here. My address is http://assumetheposition.wordpress.com if anyone fancies it x
September 11th, 2008 at 8:47 pmTerrific idea, and thanks so much for directing me to some excellent blogs.
September 12th, 2008 at 12:42 pmMaybe next year, no? *wink*
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September 13th, 2008 at 7:32 amI am totally honored to be listed next to such amazing writers. Thanks so much for all the work you put into this; I have a lot of reading to do!
xoxo,
September 13th, 2008 at 1:08 pmMM
Dearest Rori - Thank you so much for including me! I am honored and truly thrilled and just cannot thank you enough. I know all of the work that goes into compiling a list like this and I truly appreciate how much time it must have taken. So thank you once again and keep doing what you do. I am a huge fan. XOXOXOXO BLISS
September 14th, 2008 at 12:32 amHow could you not include theovereducatednympho.com, Girl with a one track mind, A Taste of the Good Wife (even though she stopped writing), Linda Sue’s Diary, and if you find it through the archives, Tales of a Witty Sex Kitten?
September 15th, 2008 at 5:10 amEasy, Max. I didn’t include them because I didn’t know about them - no one nominated and I’ve never heard of these blogs. That was the point of getting others to nominate awesome bloggers.
September 15th, 2008 at 5:29 amHi Rori - Thank you ever so much for including me and my little blogging niche on the list - it’s flattering to be included with such excellent company. I’m definitely adding you to my blogroll right now. - Anita Wagner
September 15th, 2008 at 3:07 pmHello Rori,
I am honored beyond words to join this fantastic group of bloggers. Thank you for including me in your list.
–Scorpio
September 15th, 2008 at 3:56 pmWow. As though the stack of books next to my bed wasn’t high enough, now I have even more blogs to read! Honestly, I’m always excited by the intelligent, sexy writers I find on the internet. My blog is still pretty new, but I hope to be a part of the league I so admire: http://justineplays.blogspot.com/
September 18th, 2008 at 9:42 pmwow - what a delightful surprise this morning! thank you for landing me in such esteemed company!
September 22nd, 2008 at 10:05 pmWhere’s my blogsite?
Seriously, thanks for sharing the list. Though I am not a seasoned writer, I am an avid reader of these types of blogs. Not only does it help me sizzle my sex life but also, stimulate my inner self. Anyways, I would like to invite you to also check out http://www.nakedtube.com — you might find this interesting and useful. Cheers!
September 30th, 2008 at 1:32 pmThanks for the hard work putting this together. I am now trying to read other people’s sex blogs.
October 12th, 2008 at 8:55 pmWhat an awesome list!
October 22nd, 2008 at 4:22 amJust adding a newbie to the list. I’ll never make the top 100, or even the top 200, but here’s my new blog, please comment - good or bad - with your suggestions or whatever.
January 9th, 2009 at 8:07 pmThanks!
Nancy
http://slinkier.blogspot.com/
Great list! I will definitely have to go through and take a look at all the sites I don’t recognize. And, while I’m at it, I’ll leave a link for my site, Black Heart Magazine. We focus on sex, love and literature; kind of like Nerve, but more philosophical.
April 9th, 2009 at 2:48 pmJust what I have been looking for a great list of sex blogs, that will inspire me to even greater and naughtier levels….
April 22nd, 2009 at 10:01 pmThe Internet Swordsman
Next year I will make sure I’m in the top 20 at least, watch me rise and get bigger and bigger…….!
April 22nd, 2009 at 10:14 pmThe Internet Swordsman
Oh fun! Looks like I’ve got some reading to do! Nice list.
April 24th, 2009 at 6:14 amWow..very nice list though I think some are not in order..Anyway this is very useful post!
May 16th, 2009 at 1:52 pmAah, exactly what I was hoping for. Great list of sexy bloggers.
July 31st, 2009 at 5:48 amWell if I did not make the list at least I can promote myself
August 18th, 2009 at 10:59 amHi! I was surfing and found your blog post… nice! I love your blog.
Cheers! Sandra. R.
September 10th, 2009 at 2:57 pmWhat a great resource!
If it’s all right to ask, how do blogs make their way to you to be considered for this list?
October 4th, 2009 at 9:31 amI think this list will provide me with an endless source of inspiration!! good job … how on earth did you choose? what is your criteria?
December 6th, 2009 at 3:37 pm