Between My Sheets

I usually don’t write straight toy reviews - I prefer instead to tell you about a time Daddy and I used the toy. Recently, though, I got an email question, and I’ve had this toy in my arsenal for awhile…so here’s my recommendation!

The email:

Hi Rori,

I noticed you write a lot about anal. Do you have any tips for someone who enjoys it but doesn’t have much experience? What toys should I buy?

~P

Ok, first of all, I have to say from personal experiences, you are on the right track, dear reader, especially if you’re nervous or unsure about trying anal. Toys are great for testing things out back there! And, since you asked, here’s one of my favorites:

Ok, it looks a little funky, but hear me out. This toy is called the Wanda, and it’s great for men OR women interested in anal sex. Well, I’m assuming. I’m not a man obviously!!!

Last time I was allowed to masturbate, I played with this toy a little. Anally, I’m tight. Maybe that is TMI, but the reason why that’s relevant is that this toy is small enough for anal virgins or those who are just naturally tight. It’s really easy to slip into your pussy to get it a little wet so you can slide it into your ass. And yes - pussy juice or not, I def recommend lube of some sort!

Because it has a small tip and gets increasingly larger, it is a great “training wheels” toy, and if you decide that anal isn’t your thing, it makes a great vaginal dildo as well. My favorite part, though, is that the silicone is rigid enough to make anal entry easy, but flexible enough to be comfortable. Bonus points: it is phthalate-free - so no worries on the icky chemicals front!

One downside - this is more of a solo toy than a couples toy. Daddy and I haven’t played with it, and I doubt we will (unless he decide he wants to). It’s not “pluggy” enough to stay in during rough sex, but because of the shape, it isn’t really an “in-and-out” toy. So, solo getting ready for anal, yes. Couples play, eh.

When you try anal for the first time with someone else, start slow. Don’t force it in…slow is good. Push in, push in a little more, push in a little more…and don’t forget to breath. It will most certainly hurt at first, but it is a good kind of hurt.

Hope that answers your question! Maybe some other people will leave toy recommendations in the comments!