Nominate Some Sexy Bloggers

I was recently named on a list of the Top 100 Female Bloggers. I’m one of the few (possibly the only, I’m not done reading) erotica bloggers on the list. I’m honored to represent this category of blogging, but I feel like I’m just one in a sea of amazing erotica bloggers.
We talk about sex. We get people off. But we’re so much more. We’re some of the most honest bloggers out there, and the topics we’re discussing aren’t only about aiding masturbation.
So, I’m creating my own list - The Top Sex Bloggers of 2008.
I’d like your help. This list is going to be based on three things:

  1. My personal opinion of the site (20%)
  2. Your “ratings” (ie, PR, Alexia, etc) and survival rate (ie, how long your blog’s been alive) (20%)
  3. Your fans, which I’ll take from who all nominated you below and the comments on your site (60%)

I have some very clear ideas in my mind as to who needs to make the top 100 list, but the Internet is huge and there are a lot of amazing blogs I’ve not read yet. So, I’m counting on you to nominate them!

Here are the official rules:

*Leave your nominations as a comment below. You do not have to use your real name, but you do need to use a valid email address (which I’ll never share). If you don’t feel comfortable commenting, for whatever reason, email me your list instead. Please include a few words about why you’re nominating them! Somewhere in your comment, you MUST INCLUDE A LINK TO THEIR HOMEPAGE, in case I don’t currently read their blog.

*You cannot nominate yourself. You CAN post on your blog asking your readers to nominate you, and you can nominate other writers from your blog.

*If you see that someone has already nominated your favorite blogger, PLEASE second their opinion! The more people who nominate a single blog, the more weight that blog will pull with point #3 (see above)

*This is a list of BLOGGERS, not blogs…so if your favorite blog has more than one writer, make sure to specify who you are nominating. On the final list, couples (ie, a husband and wife team) might be grouped together. It depends on the entries I get.

*To qualify, the blog has to be about sex. If it is a relationship blog, in general, the posts have to be sex-related at least half of the time. It does NOT have to be a blog posting erotica fiction - it can be a blog that just discusses sex, or even a particular facet of sex (such as this is a d/s blog). Blogs can be written by ANYONE - male, female, gay, straight, poly…anything goes. The blog has to be current, though - meaning it has to have updated at least once in the past week.

*You can nominate as many bloggers as you’d like, but please keep in mind this is a list of the best of the best. So, give me your top five or ten or so, not a list of 100 bloggers!

*I’ll be accepting nominations from now until July 31, and the final list will be posted on August 1, 2008.

                I was going to give away some prizes, but on second thought, that’s not what this is really about. This is about honoring the sexy bloggers out there who are making a difference, even though it probably means a few nasty comments and some hate mail now and then. Instead, I’ll make a badge that any blogger who makes the list can display, and we’ll save the prizes for another day.

                What are you waiting for…start nominating!!!! (And pretty please, mention this on your website - the more nominations, the better!)

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                71 Responses to “Nominate Some Sexy Bloggers”

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                  Mikey Mongol Says:

                  I’ve known Lumpesse (www.lumpesse.com) for a while now, and she’s both sexy and a blogger, hence my nomination of her for the sex blogger’s list.

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                  Nobilis Says:

                  The site I would like to nominate is Ellie Lumpesse. She’s got a gorgeous voice, a fabulously kinky mind, and a sumptuous body.

                  She blogs at lumpesse.com and has a podcast called “Bedroom Radio” that is not to be missed.

                  Do podcasts count? That’s basically an audio blog.

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                  E.D. 42 Says:

                  I nominate:

                  Ellie Lumpesse of http://www.lumpesse.com/

                  For making the most of out of the combined concept of sex and intellectualism. The sexiness is sexier and the kink is kinkier when she provides deep, thoughtful commentary not just on sex in general but especially in regards to her own life. Also, she’s cute when she goes on the occasional angry rant about the very things she enjoys.

                  Tell your mama to vote Obama,
                  E.D.

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                  Rori Says:

                  Podcasts/vlogging totally count!

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                  ABs Says:

                  I nominate Radical Vixen! I see she’s already on your sidebar - LOVE HER!

                  Woo!

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                  Jay Says:

                  I wouldn’t hesitate to nominate the physically and intellectually sexy Ellie of lumpesse.com

                  She has touched me in ways that I have only been able to describe in my blog, and now I want to share her with the world ;)

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                  Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek Says:

                  Well, since we can’t nominate ourselves, I suppose I’ll have to think of someone else… (just kidding, I’m not sure if I’d be up in the top 100 anyway)

                  I definitely have to nominate Sinclair Sexsmith from Sugarbutch Chronicles http://sugarbutch.net
                  I find the writing is absolutely fantastic, not to mention the sex is steamy, erotic, and gets under your skin in all the right ways. The dialogue on gender, sexuality, and relationships that Sinclair goes into on a regular basis are always amazing, well informed, well written, and fantastic to read!

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                  TP FAN Says:

                  Oh, oh, oh, I have one! Tom Paine: http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com/

                  He has to be on your list!

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                  Preston Halcomb Says:

                  I would love to second the nomination for Ellie at Lumpesse.com. Her blogs are great, her pictures make me ache and her podcast is required listening to me whenever a new one is published.

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                  Burned HNT Says:

                  […] Nominate Some Sexy Bloggers […]

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                  Lilly Says:

                  Well Rori, I think this is a great thing you’re doing. I, however, won’t post it on my site personally because it would feel like I’m asking them to vote for -me-, and asking for a nomination seems to ….defeat the purpose?

                  Meh. I also do not feel I’ve been around long enough to be worthy of such nomination.

                  I’m nominating: AlwaysArousedGirl (you have her in blogroll)
                  Thursdays Child http://thursdayschildhasfartogo.blogspot.com/
                  and Narration by D (her hubby) http://narrationbyd.blogspot.com/

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                  Lilly Says:

                  oh oh, I forgot, I second the noms for Radical Vixen (who works her ass off with Sugasm) and Sinclair Sexsmith.

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                  Lilly Says:

                  Actually, (I shoulda just waited while I thought about it, but I don’t do that) I’m adding more noms.

                  Even tho it’s clearly not needed, I’ll agree that Ellie should be nominated. She’s been around awhile and takes it seriously.

                  Also, Catalina, who’s busier than any blogger should be, it’s practically a full-time job for her! Unsure though what to list for her…she has, what, 6 blogs or something?

                  Also (last one, I promise) Wendy Blackheart http://www.heartfullofblack.com/

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                  Essin' Em Says:

                  I’d like to second nominations for:
                  Sinclair (Sugarbutch)
                  AAG
                  Wendy Blackheart

                  And add:
                  Audacia Ray (blogs for Naked City and at http://www.wakingvixen.com)
                  Curvaceous Dee (http://curvaceousdee.blogspot.com)

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                  Curvaceous Dee Says:

                  My nominations (I’ve tried to keep the numbers down!) go to:

                  ~ Radical Vixen: for not only keeping her personal PSA blog going for all these years, but for also helping keep the Sugasm running smoothly

                  ~ Shanna Katz: for all the education, sexamacation, and enthusiasm!

                  ~ Thursday’s Child: for just being fabulous - and hot in rope

                  ~ Sinclair Sugarbutch: for making me think hard about gender roles and subversion thereof

                  ~ Anita Wagner: for keeping a great blog about polyamory

                  ~ Catalina Ramirez: for being so amazingly busy, enthusiastic, and erotic

                  ~ Mistress Matisse: for being one of the first ’sex’ blogs I ever read, and still going strong after all these years!

                  ~ Tara Tainton: for her open, honest, adorable, hard-working sexuality.

                  xx Dee

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                  Eileen Says:

                  I’d like to second Wendy Blackheart and Sinclair Sexsmith, who are both wonderful bloggers.

                  And similar to Lilly, I probably won’t ask to be nominated on my own blog. I’ll be curious to see how our blog-circles overlap on the final list, though!

                  Other nominations:

                  Maymay: maybemaimed.com. Diary of a bisexual submissive brilliant man. Also my partner, so of course I’m biased.

                  Calico: dominatrixnextdoor.com/blog/. Journal of a young, wickedly smart NYC pro-domme.

                  I know she may be a little obvious, but as far as skillful writers are concerned, I cannot speak highly enough of Chelsea Summers: http://prettydumbthings.typepad.com/chelseagirl/

                  And I’ll stop there. I read about 150 blogs at the moment, so obviously the list just keeps on going :).

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                  alainbriongloid Says:

                  I nominate ScarletLotus of http://feministfucktoy.com/. I enjoy her podcasts and her intelligent, thought provoking blogs. I’ve only been reading her a short time, but I have to say *I* think she’s one of the most dynamic bloggers out there :)

                  Thanks!

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                  Jimbo Jones Says:

                  I would like to nominate Essin’ Em (http://essinem.blogspot.com/) to make the best sexbloggers list as I read her blog religiously and am always entertained or enlightened (or both) by her entries.
                  I also would like to cast a vote in for Always Aroused Girl (http://aagblog.com/) as well.

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                  Nia Says:

                  I’d also like to nominate Essin’ Em - I find her writing adorable.

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                  Amalthea Says:

                  Essen’ Em. She’s the first sex blogger I ran across somehow, and it was like love at first read. :)

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                  Amanda Says:

                  I love essin em as a sex blogger. Also Sugar butch is great.

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                  Steffi Says:

                  Essin’ Em, please! Same experience as Amalthea. I love Essin’ Em’s writing, and her blog is one of the first things I read when I start my computer day.

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                  Jiz Lee Says:

                  Yes to all those mentioned above!

                  AND add:

                  Ask Dr. G Love (Vlog, Part of U People) - http://suckaforlife.com/upodcast/ask-dr-g-love/
                  Violet Blue - http://tinynibbles.com/
                  Pop-shot - http://www.pop-shot.blogspot.com/
                  fivestar - http://www.iamfivestar.com/

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                  Lolita Wolf Says:

                  I nominate Viviane of http://www.thesexcarnival.com

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                  roxy Says:

                  I want to add my vote for aag and also nominate Shasta Gibson - http://shastagibson.com/.

                  Both of them write beautifully of their lives, in and out of the bedroom, in ways that are sexy, exciting and very real.

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                  Jonathan Says:

                  Wifey from WifeyTalk.com

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                  penny Says:

                  I nominate Janie from The Late Bloomer Finally Blooms. She makes me laugh and cry and gets me going - sometimes all in the same paragraph. Genius!

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                  dominadoll Says:

                  I second the following:
                  Audacia Ray (Naked City) & http://www.wakingvixen.com
                  Viviane of http://www.thesexcarnival.com
                  Violet Blue - http://tinynibbles.com/
                  Essin’ Em (http://essinem.blogspot.com/)
                  Amber Rhea of http://www.beingamberrhea.com/

                  Good luck to All!

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                  Wendy Blackheart Says:

                  I’ve got to nominate Curvaceous D (http://curvaceousdee.blogspot.com/) because her blog rocks so hard. She was one of the first sex bloggers I started reading on a regular basis, and she rocks so hard!

                  I’d also like to second Maymay and Calico, as they’re both bloody brilliant. They are also both damn sexy. Yum!

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                  Robert Says:

                  Despite her protests I nominate Lilly: http://dangerouslilly.blogspot.com

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                  vermont Says:

                  http://7d.blogs.com/mistress/

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                  nez Says:

                  roger, @ dirtyboy2.blogspot.com
                  xxx

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                  Ellie Says:

                  I would like to nominate the following people that haven’t been mentioned yet:

                  Tony Comstock: http://www.comstockfilms.com/blog/tony/
                  Figleaf: http://www.realadultsex.com/
                  Luka: http://barbedwireboudoir.blogspot.com/
                  Miss Bliss: http://blog.blisswarrior.com/

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                  ktiten Says:

                  I second nez and say roger @ dirtyboy2.blogspot.com

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                  Charlotte Says:

                  Roger all the way for his talent and very naughty words. Also for being such a lovely gentleman;)

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                  Charlotte Says:

                  Oh and his site http://dirtyboy2.blogspot.com/

                  xx

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                  Michael Says:

                  This nomination has to go to the very unique and very talented Miss Charlotte Thorpe, for her artistic erotica.

                  She’s amazing.

                  Goodluck!

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                  dirtylittlegirl Says:

                  I put my nomination in for roger (at http://dirtyboy2.blogspot.com) who brings pleasure to women everywhere.

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                  MistressMaeve Says:

                  I’m full support of Lumpesse!

                  And thanks to the person who nominated me. That’s hot.

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                  ben Says:

                  I’m pretty new to the world of blogs, but I’ve seen a lot in my brief travels and have found Alice Ginsberg’s Wonderland to be my favorite site.(http://anonymous-alice.blogspot.com)
                  I continue to search, but always end up back at her site.

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                  Michael Says:

                  http://charlottethorpe73.wordpress.com/

                  Charlotte’s site

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                  tronbunny Says:

                  Oh, yes, Roger(at http://dirtyboy2.blogspot.com)!

                  I just love a man to talk dirty to me. Especially with that accent!

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                  bzzzzgrrrl Says:

                  I echo the nominations already here for Sinclair at Sugarbutch Chronicles (sugarbutch.net). Phenomenal, thoughtful writing — and incredibly hot. I haven’t found anything better.

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                  tongue-tied Says:

                  some of my daily favorites …

                  a flower a day
                  AlwaysArousedGirl
                  debauchette
                  One Life, Take Two
                  Savage Love Podcast
                  Silent-Porn-Star
                  Sugarbutch Chronicles
                  The Heron Clan
                  Viviane’s Sex Carnival
                  24.7

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                  ~January~ Says:

                  Oh, you absolutely have to include Roger Dirtyboy! He is absolutely yummy in his writings!! And a fucking sexy gentleman, if I may add to the comment above ;)

                  http://dirtyboy2.blogspot.com/

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                  Speak Sexy Says:

                  I have two favorites and I can’t pick either one as the top!

                  - Roger at http://dirtyboy2.blogspot.com for his hot, slippery, fantastic erotica.

                  - Six at http://sixelaborates.wordpress.com/ for his amazing way of combining poignant, in-depth emotion with sexuality.

                  Both blogs are just the best of the best in sex writing!!!

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                  Janie Blooms Says:

                  I would like to nominate Penny from birdsaresmart.blogspot.com.
                  I would also like to nominate Mariella from wannaplaymariella.blogspot.com
                  Incredibly fierce writing.

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                  Last Mango Says:

                  Dirty Little Girl, particularly for her most recent post, “The One in Your Fantasies”: http://dirtylittlemind.blogspot.com/

                  Mariella, probably the most literary sex blog I’ve read: http://wannaplaymariella.blogspot.com/

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                  musns Says:

                  I nominate Curvaceous Dee - she is a *sexy* blogger in several senses - her writing, her pictures, and the friendliness she shares with all who stop by.

                  She is *my* hero - she has helped me appreciate my own shape by the way she demonstrates her own comfort with her own body. I believe that she has had that impact on many other ‘larger’ women, who had/have trouble with seeing themselves as sexy.

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                  Rose Says:

                  My nomination goes to Roger at http://dirtyboy2.blogspot.com! His words are so arousing, and I love the way I feel when I leave his blogs. Satisfied, yet almost begging for more.

                  Blessed Be.

                  Rose.

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                  Lady Says:

                  I just started reading Ellie Lumpesse today.

                  And just today, her writings have turned me on, stopped my heart, and elicited incredible feelings of recognition.

                  She has an amazing flair for putting into words those elusive feelings that so many of us have, but feel so alone with.

                  Plus she writes about sex with humor, sass and delicious honesty.

                  I think I like her. A lot.

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                  LL Says:

                  One life, take two and Always Aroused Girl. Two great writers that always make me hot.

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                  Mariella Says:

                  I think Miss Janie from The Late Bloomer Finally Blooms(.blogspot.com) deserves a nod for sure–just forthright, fun, evocative writing that speaks to so many people. She makes the everyday a bit more magical in her account of it. Fantastic blog.

                  Also, though he’s a bit new to the scene, his ever-growing catalogue of erotic fiction is so gorgeous and totally worth a look. Jack from roughwords(.blogspot.com) gets my nomination as well.

                  So many goodies to choose from!

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                  Bevin Says:

                  I would like to nominate:

                  Sinclair Sexsmith, http://www.sugarbutch.net for heart stoppingly beautiful prose, tingly in the bathing suit parts content and searingly honest vulnerability.

                  Mistress Matisse, http://mistressmatisse.blogspot.com/, for funny, frank and charming anecdotes from the life of a poly pro domme. She’s amazing.

                  April Flores, http://fattyd.com/blog, for being the hottest adult star blogging–both physically and fashionably. I was once inspired to buy a color of lipstick she wore because it looked so good around a cock.

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                  Rose Says:

                  I’d like to add my vote to all of the nominations for sugarbutch.net I’m an avid reader and find her writing stimulating & thought provoking. Sinclair has it all going on - erotica and relationship & gender exploration.

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                  jesse james Says:

                  Sinclair Sexsmith!

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                  AveshaDee Says:

                  I would like to echo the other votes for Sinclair Sexsmith and her blog sugarbutch.net… yesterday, today, and tomorrow- she is amazing!

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                  muse Says:

                  no smut gets me hotter than that of Sinclair Sexsmith at <a href=”http://www.sugarbutch.net”)Sugarbutch Chronicles(/a).

                  seriously, I’ve had to leave my desk to take care of myself when I’ve been imprudent enough to read it at work.

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                  kim Says:

                  I definitely have to nominate Sinclair Sexsmith from Sugarbutch Chronicles http://sugarbutch.net. She’s on my daily blog roll, and am always challenged and impressed by her posts

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                  lynsey Says:

                  I would like to nominate Sinclair sex smith from sugarbutch chronicles. Her thoughts, insight, and writing are amazing.

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                  Susan Says:

                  I would like to nominate Sinclair of Sugarbutch. My daily obsession. Thanks.

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                  roro Says:

                  I echo the nominations for my two favourites, Sugarbutch (http://www.sugarbutch.net/) and Curvaceous Dee (http://curvaceousdee.blogspot.com/)! Love them both!

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                  Loving Annie Says:

                  I nominate http://www.dirtyboy2.blogspot.com

                  Roger’s writing is AWESOME !!!

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                  roger (dirtyboy) Says:

                  I’d like to nominate the fabulous DLG: http://dirtylittlemind.blogspot.com/
                  she’s made me come countless times, always delicious to read…

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                  Night Says:

                  I would like to nominate Sinclair Sexsmith of Sugarbutch.net
                  I love not only the erotic entries but also her writing on gender roles.

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                  sif Says:

                  i’m supporting the nominations for sinclair sexsmith.

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                  Kitcat Says:

                  Hands down, the best is Sinclair Sexsmith - Sugarbutch Chronicles!!!! Hot as hell!!!!!!!!!

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                  Tori Says:

                  sinclair sexsmith! makes me think AND gets me wet.

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                  TN Says:

                  Sinclair Sexsmith’s writing is hot, hot, hot. Plus she makes you think!

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                  Jan Says:

                  Sinclair Sexsmith of Sugar Butch Chronicles is the hottest. A great writer. An articulate thinker.

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                  Jan Says:

                  YUM! Sinclair!
                  keep following your own path. The instruments vary.
                  Jan

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