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Serious Business?

Sex is serious business. Right?
Well…maybe.
When I was college, I definitely didn’t respect my own body. At first, sex was this novel, new things, a way to confirm that a boy liked me. But then, I really started to spin out of control. For about a year, I was really, really depressed about life, and I […]

OK. Fine. Nothing.

“Hi, how are ya?”
“Ok.”
“How are you doing?”
“Fine.”
“What’s up?”
“Nothing.”
Ever notice how we give these stock answers 99% of the time? It’s almost like a reflex. I’m Ok. Yeah, I’m fine. Nothing is new in my life.
We’re not always ok or fine or up to nothing. Sometimes, there is a lot going on in our lives. […]

Snow Makes Me Angry

Somehow, even with my home in the mountains, that huge snowstorm from last week didn’t make it to me. Not a single flake. Today, I’m not so lucky. There’s maybe a foot or so on the ground, enough that I decided to shovel in shifts because my arms started to hurt.
Maybe you all don’t feel […]

Casual Sex: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly

Settle in…I’m just beginning to write this post, but I have a feeling it will be a long one.
Oh, casual sex, how I love and hate thee. It’s just a controversial event, even in my own mind. I feel like I hold different people to different standards, and that’s not fair. But then, […]

Poly…and Why I’m Not

Let me preface what I’m about to say here with this: I’m not out to hurt anyone’s feelings or start any kind of argument. I say “hurt anyone’s feelings” because I know that I have multiple exes who still read this blog. I say “start any kind of argument” because I know that I have […]

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