2008 Sexy Bloggers

UPDATE: I’ve opened this page up as a community project following an amazing suggestion! If you’d like to write up one of these little profiles, please contact me with the name of the blogger you’d like to do. I’ll get back to you within 24 hours about it!

Please note - this page is under construction! I wanted to get it up as soon as possible, and its a lot of work for one blogger :). Eventually, I’ll have all 100+ bloggers profiled, so PLEASE check back!

All of the below information is quoted directly from the blogger’s site when possible. For the “for a great read” part, I picked one of my favorite posts from their site. If you’re on the list and aren’t comfortable with what you see here, or if I got any information wrong, please contact me asap!

1. Sinclair Sexsmith http://sugarbutch.net

  • About Sinclair: A chivalrous kinky writer, queer butch top, and feminist sex educator in New York City
  • For a great read: ““Goddammit,” I swore softly into her hair, her neck, biting her shoulder, pressing into her harder, faster, “you’re going to come for me. Do it.’…” Read more “You’re Going to Come for Me
  • Why you should love Sinclair: Not only does Sinclair have an awesome following, but this is a blogger who’s not afraid to write about sex AND sexuality/gender. At Sugarbutch, the hard questions get answered…or at least asked.

2. Radical Vixen http://www.radicalvixen.com

  • About Radical Vixen: A kinky hippie political activist who talks dirty on the phone
  • For a great read: “It’s hard to pinpoint the ingredients that make a strong connection. Sometimes I just click with callers. Other times our interests are perfectly matched and the chemistry isn’t there. While you’re calling a paid service and the pso will be accommodating to your desire, if you have a strong attraction or connection to the woman you’re talking to the call will be so much better…” Read more from “How To Get Great Phone Sex
  • Why you should love Radical Vixen: Not only is she a kick-ass blogger, but she also runs Sugasm, which is, in my opinion, the single most productive way to get to know other sexy bloggers.

3. Curvaceous Dee http://curvaceousdee.blogspot.com

  • About Curvaceous Dee: Fat, poly, pansexual, civilly unioned, submissive, kiwi, and happy to be all of the above
  • For a great read: “Lean in close. Open your mouth and show your teeth to me. Capture my gaze, with the look in your eye that tells me you are about to clamp down and hurt me…” Read more from “Bite Me
  • Why you should love Curvaceous Dee: It is people like Dee who make it OK to be fat…or thin…or whatever. No matter what, you are sexy if you think you are. Not only that, but her writing is daaaaamn hot.

4. Always Aroused Girl http://aagblog.com

  • About AAG: Her writing has been called “brilliant” and “pure crap.” She’s been accused of being a team of writers, a man, a fantasy, and one hot lil’ bitch. She takes none of the accolades or brickbats particularly seriously.
  • For a great read: Just go to her blog and read the first post you see. I dare you to stop. In me trying to pick a favorite, I’ve been there for a half hour now, just reading.
  • Why you should love AAG: She’s a mother. A new single. A sex goddess who is, I suppose, always aroused. AAG is the type of strong, independent woman that I hope to become. (Yes, even as a sub. You can be strong and independents and still be a submissive to someone!)

5. Ellie Lumpesse www.lumpesse.com

  • About Ellie Lumpesse: Ellie Lumpesse writes about sex, BDSM, relationships, non-monogamy, feminism, and rhetoric. In addition to blogging, she produces the Bedroom Radio sex podcast and is a phone slut for hire.
  • For a great read: “I’ve never believed in the idea that a “moment” can be lost but even if that is true, a moment given over to laughter with friends hardly feels like a sacrifice…” Read more from “Ian, or, Sometimes Sex is Hilarious
  • Why you should love Ellie Lumpesse: When I put out the call for nominations, fans of Ellie’s writing and radio show came out of the woodwork like none other. This is another site you can get lost if for hours.

6. Catalina http://catalinaloves.com

  • About Catalina: Catalina is a professional sex writer, adult content marketing consultant, blog designer, and dominatrix.
  • For a great read: “I love being a sex blogger. A professional sex blogger, even. I write not just about my own erotic adventures, fantasies, and encounters, but I also write about the bigger picture - the industry. Maybe I’m not a sex blogger afterall. How about I’ll call myself a sex writer with a blog or two…” Read more “Catalina love Being A Sex Blogger
  • Why you should love Catalina: Does this girl sleep? She’s one of the most active bloggers, not just in “sex” blog world, but in the entire blogging industry. In addition to Catalina loves, she also is the editrix for TheBestSexBloggers.com and The Week In Kink. She also works for Fetlife and a bunch of other companies I’ve probably missed! Why I love her, though, is that she’s all about pulling this community together, connecting bloggers with photographers with readers and more!

7. Selena Kitt http://selenakittyn.com/blog

  • About Selena Kitt: Like any feline, Selena Kitt loves the things that make her purr - and want nothing more than to make others purr right along with her!
  • For a great read: “I was waiting for him at the door. The dog was, too - loyal little thing, she waits there every day, wiggling with excitement the minute his car pulls into the driveway. Me, too, girl… me too…” Read more “Faithful
  • Why you should love Selena Kitt: Me-ow. Selena Kitt is a sexy mama…literally. Go congratulate her - she’s expecting!

8-9. Wifey and Hubby http://wifeytalk.com

  • About Wife and Hubby: Hubby and Wifey are a 100% real amateur couple that loves to share their most intimate sexual moments in hardcore photos, XXX videos and on their exclusive amateur porn dvds. Wifey Talk is their blog, and you can see more at Wifey’s World.
  • For a great read: “Wifey’s blowjobs are no joke. Unless of course she happens to start gagging on Hubby’s load or cracks up after taking a load of sperm to the eye! How could you keep a straight face in that situation…” Read more from “Who Doesn’t Love a Good Blowjob Joke?
  • Why you should love Wifey and Hubby: Wifey and Hubby may be amateur, but they are more of a commercial site than most of the others on this list. Still, I think they’re more than justified in making the top ten. Wifey Talk has a huge following, but beyond that, their daily posts always link out to tons of other amazing sites, sexual and otherwise.

10. Roger http://dirtyboy2.blogspot.com

  • About Roger: An Englishman now living in New York, and writing erotica for women
  • For a great read: “You break the kiss, and smile at me. “We’re going to bed… I thought you’d like to watch us… you can join us too if you like, but I’d like her to myself a little first, just for a short while…” Read more from “The Threesome
  • Why you should love Roger: There isn’t a straight girl in the free world who won’t find Roger irresistibly sexy. His site is for women, but I’d venture to guess that he has a ton of male readers too. If you haven’t already, I highly recommended picking up a copy of his book.

11. Essin’ Em http://essin-em.com

  • About Essin’ Em: your friendly neighborhood feminist, queer, Femme, horny, politically active, questioning, pondering sexologist and sex educator
  • For a great read: “My senior year of college, the ‘alternative newspaper’ did an article on ‘BDSM and Feminism.’ I was interviewed for it, with my real name, and they published some pictures of me in a corset with clothespins, nothing risque. However, they did let a professor be quoted, anonymously, as saying ‘all women who are sexually submissive were sexually assaulted.’…” Read more from “Once a sub…always a sub.
  • Why you should love Essin’ Em: Essin’ Em’s writing really pulls you in. In my opinion, she’s one of the most “real” writers out there. By that, I don’t mean that anyone else on this list is fake or anything. I just mean that reading Essin’ Em’s blog is like reading someone’s diary. This is a site you can easily get lost in for hours!

12. Amber Rhea http://www.beingamberrhea.com

  • About Amber Rhea: Blogger, podcaster, web developer, pole dancer, all-around nerd. Founder of Sex 2.0; co-founder of Georgia Podcast Network.
  • For a great read: Subscribe to her via Twitter! (click here to do so)
  • Why you should love Amber Rhea: This site is much different than all of the others I’ve already listed…and different is a good thing! Her posts fall into three categories: actually blogs, tweet roundups, and lists of interesting sex-related posts on other blogs. It’s not all sex, all the time, but it’s instead its real life, from a sex-positive feminist.

13-14. Richard and Amy http://247richardandamy.com

  • About Richard and Amy: A real life 24.7 D/s couple, exploring bdsm, daily life, and each other, from both sides of the relationship
  • For a great read: “In our relationship, I have given all power over to Richard. If I start taking that power back, by challenging him or being disrespectful, then I am betraying him. I’m betraying him in the same way that, if we agreed to be monogamous, having sex with another man would betray him. How could he trust me if I did that?…” Read more from “Trust and Total Power Exchange”
  • Why you should love Richard and Amy: They’re completely honest, and their blog isn’t just story after story about sex. It is something more. Plus, Richard is a very talented photographer and Amy is a beautiful subject!

15-16. MJ and MJ’s Slave http://www.aslavestruenature.blogspot.com

  • About MJ and MJ’s Slave: Living a 24/7 Master/slave relationship, Love first - M/s life came later
  • For a great read: “i had a moment of shock when He chained the gate and locked it. Everything MJ does is very calm and deliberate. He never raises His voice or looses His cool. He treats me like a prize to be enjoyed…maybe played with a bit roughly at times, but His sadistic streak is blessedly equaled by my craving for intense experience…” read more from “slave in the kennel-pt 3″
  • Why you should love MJ and MJ’s Slave: I have a soft spot for other bdsm couples, but I especially love this couple’s ever-evolving relationship. You can really related to what they write (and the pictures are super sexy).

17. Thursday’s Child http://thursdayschildhasfartogo.blogspot.com
18. Narration by D http://narrationbyd.blogspot.com
19. Andrea Zanin http://www.sexgeek.wordpress.com
20. The Provocateur http://theprovocateur.wordpress.com
21. Violet Blue http://tinynibbles.com
22. Autumn http://dreamsofaneroticaqueen.sensualwriter.com
23. SSS http://sweatshopsissy.wordpress.com
24. Storm http://ambientstorm.blogspot.com
25. Sub lyn http://longdistancesub.blogspot.com
26. Tara Tainton http://www.taratainton.com/tarastrysts/index.html
27. Jake http://factsandfriction.blogspot.com
28. Cherry Bomb http://cherrybombnyc.blogspot.com
29. Lakey http://fairelaffaire.blogspot.com
30. Scarlet http://feministfucktoy.com
31. Glenpreece http://lastbreath.wordpress.com
32. Lolita Wolf http://www.leatheryenta.com
33. Vixen http://blue-eyedvixen.com
34. Tom Paine http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com
35. Tongue Tied Blue http://tonguetiedblue.blogspot.com
36. Maymay http://www.maybemaimed.com
37. Miss Bliss http://blog.blisswarrior.com
38. Mistress Maeve http://7d.blogs.com/mistress
39. Nadia http://www.kinkylibrarian.net
40. Luka http://barbedwireboudoir.blogspot.com
41-42. Odysseus and Penelope http://marriedexploits.blogspot.com
43. Eileen http://bloodylaughter.com
44. Calico http://dominatrixnextdoor.com/blog
45. Caroline Shepherd http://feministsexcarnival.blogspot.com
46. Kathleen http://polyspace.wordpress.com
47. Packing Vocals http://packingvocals.blogspot.com
48. Audacia Ray http://www.wakingvixen.com
49. Axe http://unspeakableaxe.com
50. Baccus http://www.erosblog.com
51. Chelsea Summers http://prettydumbthings.typepad.com/chelseagirl
52. Debauchette http://debauchette.wordpress.com
53. The Butterfly Temptress http://thebutterflytemptress.com
54. Dirty Little Girl http://dirtylittlemind.blogspot.com
55. Sexy Whispers http://sexywhispers.wordpress.com
56. Wendy Blackheart http://www.heartfullofblack.com
57-58. Padme and Anakin http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com
59-60. Him and Her http://sexcakes.blogspot.com
61. Slip of a Girl http://aslipofagirl.blogspot.com
62. Blowjob Babe http://strokesuckswallow.blogspot.com
63-64. Dirty Debbie and CJ http://dirtydebbie.blogspot.com
65. Scorpio http://adventuresofascorpio.blogspot.com
66. Charlotte http://charlottethorpe73.wordpress.com
67. Bitchy Jones http://bitchyjones.wordpress.com
68. Anastasisa http://www.chaosnoir.com/anastasia
69. Alice http://anonymous-alice.blogspot.com
70. Anita Wagner http://practicalpolyamory.blogspot.com
71. Jack http://writingdirty.com
72. Mistress Matisse http://mistressmatisse.blogspot.com
73. Mariella http://wannaplaymariella.blogspot.com
74. O http://eros-logos.blogspot.com
75. Shasta Gibson http://shastagibson.com
76. Gwen http://www.pop-shot.blogspot.com
77. fivestar http://www.iamfivestar.com
78. Lilly http://dangerouslilly.com
79. Penny http://birdsaresmart.blogspot.com
80. Figleaf http://www.realadultsex.com
81. Tony http://www.comstockfilms.com/blog/tony
82. Viviane http://www.thesexcarnival.com
83. Six http://sixelaborates.wordpress.com
84. Bob http://bobsbestboobs.com
85-99. Fiammetta, Jill, Robyn, Scarlot, Melissa, Kitten, Karly, Holly, Surgeon, Stacey, Tara, Jessica, Gina, Wendy, and Tori http://deepthroated.wordpress.com
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15 Responses to “2008 Sexy Bloggers”

  1. 1
    Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2008 Says:

    […] the list. You guys created it, I’m just posting it. I hope you’ll also check out the 2008 Sex Bloggers page to find out more about all of […]

  2. 2
    Rori Says:

    I agree, fixator - there aren’t tons of gay erotic blogs on this list (at least not male gay). I typically don’t read male, gay erotica because…I’m not a gay male, which is why I called for nominations in the first place. Please, please, please feel free to comment with a list of awesome gay blogs we can all check out!

  3. 3
    Kelly Says:

    Thank you for such a wonderful list! I have yet to make it through the first half of the list, but so far I’ve added quite a few blogs to my already extensive blogroll. Some great finds here…blogs I wouldn’t have found otherwise. I’m overwhelmed by how many talented writers there are out there; they’re definitely an inspiration to me as a fledgling blogger. I’d be honored to be in company such as this for the next round. Thanks again!

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    pantherapardus Says:

    Good choices. :) I was already reading a lot of ‘em, and this just gives me a big list of others to choose from. Thanks for the reviews.

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    MajorVoyeur Says:

    Great List. I will be busy for awhile checking out all those blogs. It does my heart good to see so many people devoted to hedonist pleasures, expressing themselves so much.

    Cya’

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    doubleknot Says:

    Thanks for the list! I am continually on the lookout for well-written bdsm blogs. I will surely be attacking this list like a Sadist on fresh meat, lol.

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    Anita Wagner Says:

    Hey, thanks so much for including me in your list - I’m honored! And thanks for all the info and sharing you do yourself - you certainly belong on the top 100 list!

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    badinfluencegirl Says:

    this is a great list actually. i’m sad that miss chelsea has shut down her wonderful pretty dumb things but i would have included it myself in any list i wrote.

    i would add myself because i’m vain like that and sharedcindy http://sharedcindy.blogspot.com/ and i would have added sharing dee but they went inactive

    :)

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    Alice Says:

    Thanks for including me in your list! I appreciate it more than I can say, and totally don’t deserve it.

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    penny Says:

    this list is quite a task you’ve set yourself! I hope you get through it, ’cause I’m enjoying it, but I sure will understand if you don’t. maybe you could recruit help? I’m sure your readers could pitch in a few of the reviews.

    xo
    Penny

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    Rori Says:

    Penny - that is an AMAZING idea. It takes so long to get through this list, because I get lost reading sites that I never knew existed!

    I’m going to post about it, but if anyone reads this here - if you would like to write one, email me!!!

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    A Wonderful Idea Says:

    […] the list, I’m also working through each individual blog with more detail about the blogger on THIS PAGE. Penny’s comment to me was […]

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    lalana Says:

    I have a feeling I’m going to be here for awhile - some of the blogs you’ve linked to are amazing!! Wondering how to go about getting you to link to my blog at some point…

    Always His,
    lalana

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    Kathleen Says:

    WOW! I can’t believe I am even ON the list! Thanks so much, Rori. I’m back to blogging, and this is a great thing to see on my return.

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    Wow! « Polyamory from the Inside Out Says:

    […] polyamory, sexy, twitter at 7:26 am by Kathleen I just found out that I made the list for the Top 100 Sexiest Bloggers of 2008 according to the readers of the Between My Sheets blog. That’s really cool! Thanks to my […]

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